girleegirl_05 Posted July 29, 2014 Share Posted July 29, 2014 So finally after all these years (6) to be exact, its finally over!! It's actually been over now for 3 years and its been off and on for the other 3. At first it was fun, exciting, euphoric. He paid for everything, I went everywhere with him. He placed me above his wife and I was number one in his life. I needed that because me husband treated me the complete opposite! As time went on, more and more excuses seemed to enter the picture. I caught him lying a couple of times about placing personal ads in Craigslist. I started noticing by our conversation how rude he was to women and to his wife too. His wife is an alcoholic in denial and he her enabler. We talked a million times about the fact that he should leave her, (not for me but just in general) he again makes excuses like "where would she go?" I looked the other way when he didn't have steady employment due to a company restructure. He did work many different gigs, so he did have some money. He is a musician so I use to go to his gigs, he stopped inviting me to those too. So 3 years ago i got sick of it all and started backing away and one day near Easter i decided that I needed to change my life. I asked God to forgive me and I started to move on. I stopped calling and he knew why because i let him know. In the last 3 years it has been a struggle to stay away, but I kept it platonic the whole time. Id go back and forth at least 5 times with saying it had to be over. So finally 1 week ago he first started nice in his text said he missed me. Then we talked about a few things then the next day, I shared my new job. He congratulated me. As we texted more he started being belligerent and mean asking if I would be getting in trouble by God by texting him. i told him he was being mean and that I didn't appreciate it. Finally he said that he emplored me to live the life I needed to and to leave him alone. I was so hurt and angry I told him that was exactly what was gonna happen. I texted "bye" not even good bye. I never thought it would come to that kind of ending.I'm angry, hurt and still can't believe the way he treated me. Today I saw him post on Craigslist. He had done that 2 weeks ago and 2 months ago too. So much for I'm the only one he'll ever love and he would never go back on craigslist ever again to look for someone..blah..blah..blah!! He's such a liar! Link to post Share on other sites
Sub Posted July 29, 2014 Share Posted July 29, 2014 You were having an affair with a married man. Dishonesty surprises you? 6 Link to post Share on other sites
travelbug1996 Posted July 29, 2014 Share Posted July 29, 2014 He isn't worth the time you took to write that. block him out of your life completely and stay away from married *********s. they ALL lie. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
DKT3 Posted July 29, 2014 Share Posted July 29, 2014 So finally after all these years (6) to be exact, its finally over!! It's actually been over now for 3 years and its been off and on for the other 3. At first it was fun, exciting, euphoric. He paid for everything, I went everywhere with him. He placed me above his wife and I was number one in his life. I needed that because me husband treated me the complete opposite! As time went on, more and more excuses seemed to enter the picture. I caught him lying a couple of times about placing personal ads in Craigslist. I started noticing by our conversation how rude he was to women and to his wife too. His wife is an alcoholic in denial and he her enabler. We talked a million times about the fact that he should leave her, (not for me but just in general) he again makes excuses like "where would she go?" I looked the other way when he didn't have steady employment due to a company restructure. He did work many different gigs, so he did have some money. He is a musician so I use to go to his gigs, he stopped inviting me to those too. So 3 years ago i got sick of it all and started backing away and one day near Easter i decided that I needed to change my life. I asked God to forgive me and I started to move on. I stopped calling and he knew why because i let him know. In the last 3 years it has been a struggle to stay away, but I kept it platonic the whole time. Id go back and forth at least 5 times with saying it had to be over. So finally 1 week ago he first started nice in his text said he missed me. Then we talked about a few things then the next day, I shared my new job. He congratulated me. As we texted more he started being belligerent and mean asking if I would be getting in trouble by God by texting him. i told him he was being mean and that I didn't appreciate it. Finally he said that he emplored me to live the life I needed to and to leave him alone. I was so hurt and angry I told him that was exactly what was gonna happen. I texted "bye" not even good bye. I never thought it would come to that kind of ending.I'm angry, hurt and still can't believe the way he treated me. Today I saw him post on Craigslist. He had done that 2 weeks ago and 2 months ago too. So much for I'm the only one he'll ever love and he would never go back on craigslist ever again to look for someone..blah..blah..blah!! He's such a liar!I suppose you've been nothing but honest with your husband. I was once told in like the 2nd grade "you should never expect better then you give" 2 Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted July 29, 2014 Share Posted July 29, 2014 Are you still with your husband? Link to post Share on other sites
Hope Shimmers Posted July 29, 2014 Share Posted July 29, 2014 He placed me above his wife and I was number one in his life. Somehow, nothing in your post even remotely backs that up. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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