Hope4thefuture Posted August 2, 2014 Share Posted August 2, 2014 I have been separated for a little while now. I rarely think about him. I do miss being part of a family though. I do miss having a best friend and someone to share my thoughts and feelings with. Eventually I hope to be in another relationship. I really don't know the reason my ex left. It could be because he met someone. It could be he didn't 't want the responsibility of being in a marriage and family. It could be because he didn't love me anymore. It could be a combination of all the above. I don't really know the answer. Whatever happened to make him leave, I don't want to repeat my mistakes in future relationships. So what do you do if you don't know the real reason he left? Do you try to figure it out or just move forward with your life? Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted August 2, 2014 Share Posted August 2, 2014 Just move forward. The issues were coming from him, not you. Link to post Share on other sites
Shocked Suzie Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 Just move forward. The issues were coming from him, not you. In a nutshell ^^^ I spent way too long asking questions that would never be answered ...As hard as it seems it's simple "it is what it is" Try not to waste your energy thinking about this SS x ... Although I understand how hard that is to do Link to post Share on other sites
oldshirt Posted August 3, 2014 Share Posted August 3, 2014 did you abuse him, mistreat him, ignore him or cheat on him? Were you addicted to drugs or alcohol? Did you kill his dog, empty his back accounts or credit cards? Did you abuse his children or mistreat his mother? If you answered yes to anything of those things, then you should probably not do them in any future relationships. If you didn't do any of those then whatever reasons he left you will have no bearing on your next relationship. Maybe he bolted because he likes purple toenails and you prefer pink. if he tells you that will you accept and sleep at night? Or will you try to tell him he is wrong? In the end there is no reason to find out the hard, bitter truth because it will serve no useful purpose and you won't buy off on it anyway. Time and energy spent moving on and moving forward with your life will be a lot better spent than the time and energy wasted on wondering why someone left. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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