chrissie97 Posted August 4, 2014 Share Posted August 4, 2014 my boyfriend and i have been together for 4 months. we have been best friends for a year and decided that it wasnt enough. i love him so much and i can really talk to him about anything and everything. hes been saying to me that he cares about me and that he loves me and i totally believe him. hes not your usual arsehole you find at work. the problem is that he values peoples opinions too much. of course i tried to tell him this but it ended in a huge argument about everything and how our friends think the relationship is a joke. i absolutely love him to bits and i know how lucky i am to have him. it feels crazy that we havent kissed or anything and quite frankly i feel quite embarrassed by it. he is such a sweetheart and says things like 'we dont need to do things like that to show how much we care about each other'. which is adorable i admit. he said we can wait for as long as i want. because a few years ago i made a huge mistake which made me very insure about relationships and trusting people. i just feel like going into the physical side of things will make us closer and i think he needs to realise that his friends need to bugger off out of our lives. should i just kiss him spontaneously or talk to him about it first??? thanks chris xxxxxxxxxxx :love::love::love: Link to post Share on other sites
me85 Posted August 4, 2014 Share Posted August 4, 2014 So Chrissie97...I'm guessing you're at least 21/22? Have you ever kissed a guy? Has he ever kissed a girl? Are either of you virgins? I absolutely think if you're ready to be more physical then do tell him and if he isn't ready but you can't wait any longer to kiss him then do tell him that too. The point is, sit down and have a heart to heart with him asap. Never disguise your feelings. Keeping things bottled up will only hurt the RS. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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