Cloud57 Posted February 25, 2005 Share Posted February 25, 2005 I kinda told me friend I liked her (Just said I cant do these things for her as "just friends") but she said she doesnt like me in that way and that this other guy liked her too and she also rejected him (HAHHAHAH I hate this guy) She said she doesnt want to deal with guys right now. I think thats her stupid ass excuse for rejecting me but meh. Anyways I did everything for her, she even called me when she needs a ride home and I would come and get her when she could easily take the freakn bus! I think that was my problem, doing stuff for her while just being friends so she probably thinks I will do these things regardless. So I told her I cant do these things for her anymore and she said I thought we were friends? I said we are but she knows how I feel about her and she doesnt feel the same so I cant unless were gonna hangout and she said ok. She did start finding stuff that we could possibly do like swimming but I dont want to do that. I think she doesnt like me like that because I started bitching to her and she seemed to get annoyed with me everyday, I would get annoyed at her too. So I stopped doing that and we havent fought this WHOLE week and its cool. Shes very shy, barely talks to anyone at school and today she had to answer a question out loud and she turned so red! She said she was embarrassed. Damn thats insecure. Anyways I thought she like me before when I wasnt bitching, doing everything for her. She would touch my arm sit close to me while watching a movie, ask me to do stuff for her ( I read girls who like you do that) And for being so shy she always looked at my eyes when we talked and it was always me who turned away 1st, I think that was another mistake. So does she think Im too easy? Based on what Ive said is there anything I can do to get her to like me more then just a friend? Do I need to stop being the nice guy to her? I really think she could like me but I guess Im too nice to her. Link to post Share on other sites
haywood Posted February 25, 2005 Share Posted February 25, 2005 what are you looking for? a girlfriend or a friend that's a girl. you obviously want more. she said no. same happened to me. i still hung around like you did but i told myself, make a move or move on. so i made my move. it's been 4 months now and we're still together. some girls just want a guy to make their move. grab whatever you have between your legs and do it. if it backfires then why waste your time on this girl. sorry, but unless you do something, what you have here is just a friend. good luck Link to post Share on other sites
Author Cloud57 Posted February 26, 2005 Author Share Posted February 26, 2005 thanks for the advice. i was accually thinking of making a move next time. I mean she still wants to hang around me and go to movies. Link to post Share on other sites
sleeplessindallas Posted February 28, 2005 Share Posted February 28, 2005 Or maybe just really obvious, but have you considerd trying the tried-and-true method of just asking her out for a real date? You know, something obvious like dinner and a movie? Link to post Share on other sites
Hep Posted March 1, 2005 Share Posted March 1, 2005 HANG IN THERE!! I am 24f, and I had a friend named karl who is 34. He liked me and I just blew him off. I thought he was not my type at all. I started dating a guy and it didn't work. Karl kept trying- I kept saying NO WAY.... I started dating another guy it lasted a year. Karl kept trying..... Long story short... He watched me date other guys, while he remained single, and picked me up when I was down..... We are getting married in May. Be her friend--Its the best way to get a long time love. Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
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