nyny123 Posted August 10, 2014 Share Posted August 10, 2014 Not sure where to begin about this lol. My ex boyfriend who I haven't seen alittle over 2 years now contacted me on Facebook and we talked and he asked to hang out sometimes. I agreed to meet up with him because I sorta miss him. We talked about what happened between us. I thought we broke up because he didn't want a relationship and he later on about a year ago when we spoke said that he cheated on me when we dated. Well it turned out not to be case he confessed. He said this wasn't true at all and that the reason he said he cheated on me is because so I can move on because he had a girlfriend, they met after we broke up and they're not together anymore. I'm abit shocked because he had me thinking something that never happened. He said he tell this to all his exes so they can move on. He said I stopped talking to him was the reason we broke up. I do agree we didn't have much communication. At the time I was 23 and was new to dating and wanted to guy to pursue me and whatnot. It's not like I stopped talking to him I didn't hear from him either. I guess we broke up due to a misunderstanding. I have mixed feelings about going back to him so I don't know. I thought he cheated because that's what he said but he later confessed it wasn't true. Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted August 10, 2014 Share Posted August 10, 2014 (edited) Think about it.....he lied without any regard for your feelings and how it would hurt you. He proceeds to claim that he was doing you a favor so you could move on. He`s an as shole. Your doubts are valid. If I were you I wouldn't entertain the idea of dating him again....hell no. You know what, who's to say he's lying about the not cheating, maybe he came up with that crap story so he can convince you to see him again. How could you ever trust him. Edited August 10, 2014 by smackie9 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Dork Vader Posted August 10, 2014 Share Posted August 10, 2014 I sort of agree with smackie. But I will admit I have let some of my ex'es think I was the bad guy before.. If you want to see him and explore things with him. Then do it but do it with a guarded heart. Just explore things and see if things are different now. Link to post Share on other sites
JungleLover Posted August 10, 2014 Share Posted August 10, 2014 No one ever lies about cheating when they didn't and no one lies to all of their ex about cheating so they could move on. He is so full of sh--. He just want that old thing back. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted August 10, 2014 Share Posted August 10, 2014 I think he's full of sh*t. I've never known anyone to lie about cheating to help an ex "move on." Please. He's pulling the wool over your eyes so he''ll get another chance with you. Assume for a moment he did about cheating - he's just admitted he's a dishonest person with little regard for your feelings. That's not good either. I would leave this one in the past. I don't believe it was a misunderstanding. I think he did in fact cheat on you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author nyny123 Posted August 10, 2014 Author Share Posted August 10, 2014 Think about it.....he lied without any regard for your feelings and how it would hurt you. He proceeds to claim that he was doing you a favor so you could move on. He`s an as shole. Your doubts are valid. If I were you I wouldn't entertain the idea of dating him again....hell no. You know what, who's to say he's lying about the not cheating, maybe he came up with that crap story so he can convince you to see him again. How could you ever trust him. I glad to know the truth. I agree with you all the way. Link to post Share on other sites
Author nyny123 Posted August 10, 2014 Author Share Posted August 10, 2014 I sort of agree with smackie. But I will admit I have let some of my ex'es think I was the bad guy before.. If you want to see him and explore things with him. Then do it but do it with a guarded heart. Just explore things and see if things are different now. I was thinking to take things slow because that's what we agreed to do but something sorta tells me I'm better off not to pursue things with this guy. Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted August 10, 2014 Share Posted August 10, 2014 I was thinking to take things slow because that's what we agreed to do but something sorta tells me I'm better off not to pursue things with this guy. I can't see trusting him. No good reason to go backwards. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author nyny123 Posted August 10, 2014 Author Share Posted August 10, 2014 I think he's full of sh*t. I've never known anyone to lie about cheating to help an ex "move on." Please. He's pulling the wool over your eyes so he''ll get another chance with you. Assume for a moment he did about cheating - he's just admitted he's a dishonest person with little regard for your feelings. That's not good either. I would leave this one in the past. I don't believe it was a misunderstanding. I think he did in fact cheat on you. He claims he never did anything bad when we dated but I think you're right! Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted August 10, 2014 Share Posted August 10, 2014 He claims he never did anything bad when we dated but I think you're right! He lied. There was no "misunderstanding". He just blatantly lied. If you want a known liar - then date him... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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