irc333 Posted August 12, 2014 Share Posted August 12, 2014 ...the new boyfriend. This was even in a non-online situation where I had met, got to know some women, as friends...this was back in the days where I kind of played along by being a "friend" to a woman. Soon after these women got a boyfriend, their boyfriend saw me as a threat. Though I didn't hear it directly from the boyfriend, as I didn't know the boyfriend...only the woman, she would relay a message to me to limit my contact with her. One situation, though this woman had been dating this guy for a while, and we did a lot of chatting and talking on the phone...when he moved in with her, he noticed her chatting with me via AIM only to tell her to stop doing so. I initially had met in her in a college class at the time, and she said, "Hey listen, my boyfriend doesn't care for you calling or even chatting with me online, so I'll just see you in class...okay?" The semester ended and bye-bye. I had a similar situation where a woman just asked her to email her at work and not at home anymore. That all being said, gentlemen, have you been in situations like this where new boyfriends saw you as a threat? I hear how SOME women will say, "My friends come first, because I've known them a lot longer then I've known you (the new boyfriend)." But I don't know if I even care for that philosophy. Anyone? Link to post Share on other sites
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