ibmfreak Posted February 28, 2005 Share Posted February 28, 2005 hi friends, i have a major problem outhere.when i was a child i was very shy with girls. then i got a girlfriend while in college and unfortunately we went through a breakoff.now my problem is that every girl i see i would like to make her my girlfriend even though they are not worth it. i am a smart guy workout regularly. but still the guys who are not upto their mark have a girlfriend why not me pls help??? Link to post Share on other sites
EIN Posted February 28, 2005 Share Posted February 28, 2005 Learn to appreciate your Life and everything around you. Only then will you find someone who can compliments it. Good things come to those who wait. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ibmfreak Posted March 1, 2005 Author Share Posted March 1, 2005 man i am quite famous with the people whome i know. they respect me care about me but what i need is love and a feeling that somebody is their waiting for your call or somebody who is happy when you are happy and somebody to share your sorrows . someday.... Link to post Share on other sites
digsy Posted March 1, 2005 Share Posted March 1, 2005 Have you been single for a while prior to the breakup you describe? Because if you have been you tend to want to cling on to whom ever comes along. You've had to desire to love and be loved for so long that you overlook everything else in the relationship. I feel its just a sense of insecurity, you just want someone to love and be there for. To run your fingers through her hair. To let her know you got home ok last night, and you want that right away. Iwas like that. Dont worry, just be yourself, take your time, let it develop and you'll find somebody that will appreciate you for who you are. It worked for me cheers Link to post Share on other sites
Butterfly28 Posted March 1, 2005 Share Posted March 1, 2005 Originally posted by EIN Learn to appreciate your Life and everything around you. Only then will you find someone who can compliments it. Good things come to those who wait. THIS STATEMENT CANNOT BE MORE TRUE. Trust me. Good things DO come to those who wait. I've experienced that first hand. I was always impatient, but I realized WHY? If you rush it, then you will just settle. Let the person that's meant for you, fall right into your lap. It will happen. Just be patient. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ibmfreak Posted March 2, 2005 Author Share Posted March 2, 2005 so i have to play the waiting game hope it ends soon i have a small issue a bit embrassing .here it goes i have a trend of getting my friend's girlfriend like impressing them. one of my friends took my help to get a girl, so i befriended the girl and then the girl started liking me so i had to cheat my friend,it is history now but why is history repeating itself. i have a friend a very good friend and she already has a boyfriend and they are carrying on happily.sometimes i feel i dont want to repeat the mistake i did the last time Link to post Share on other sites
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