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steed82

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Ok, its like this. I used to work with this girl a few years ago. About a month ago, I get a email thats a forwarded joke and I see her name towards the bottom of the forward list. I email her, we correspond, I asked her to dinner and she accepted. We went to dinner and had a good time. She agreed to go out again, telling me to name the time and place. This past weekend, she calls me and cancels three hours before we are supposed to go out. She tells me she is sick, and proposes to go out the next night. I agreed. She was supposed to call that day, but never did. I called her, left a message, and no response. Whats the deal? Something i said? or did?

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No dude, I doubt it was anything you did or said. Not going by what you've said so far anyway.

 

I'd say give this a couple of days to be sure, but it's not looking good at the moment. OK, who knows she might quite ill and not able to call you back... but usually this sort of silent treatment, at this early stage of "dating", is probably an indication she's not all that interested.

 

Like I say, give it a day or two, and then move on.

 

Good luck!

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Unless what she said was true and you give her the benefit of a doubt, she's trying to pull a fast one on you. Show her you don't take that crap if you find out otherwise what she said was not what she was doing by giving her no attention.

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