Shame on you Posted August 19, 2014 Share Posted August 19, 2014 (edited) First time poster looking for small bit of advice. Been going out with my partner 6 years have a small baby within the last year, the spark has been gone out before baby and has since only got worse. To be fair id say we play happy family's keep each other happy in most departments, She would think everything is perfect and I don't agree I'm happy for the baby sake as a family unit. Until recent we had trust I have lost trust in two ways. She kissed a girl and denied it wasn't a big thing rang me afterwords laughing about it until I took a dim view said was nothing but lips till I pressed and found out toughs invouLded and only reason she lied was so I didn't get mad. 2nd time was her self and friends went on a weekend trip and she slept in same bed as a ex partner who is now gay she denied at first till again I knew she was lien and got the truth I find relationship with out trust is waste of time . What's yer views stay for baby sake or wake and keep baby between us visit and such On these both times which were after the baby been born I could forgive but the lien was the part that annoyed me deep down I wouldn't concierges cheating but sometime you can't see what's in front if you Edited August 19, 2014 by Shame on you Link to post Share on other sites
Elias33 Posted August 19, 2014 Share Posted August 19, 2014 Staying together for the kids is like teaching them how to be unhappy. Ask yourself, how long would you able to keep this up? We are talking about at least 17 years....don't build your own prison my friend. You can be a good parent as a co-parent. Even though, this will have complications of its own. Good luck. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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