Adding the Ex back on facebook

[myrtle318]

Here is the premise of the relationship:

We were together for a decently brief period about three years ago. It was an amazing relationship for both of us. But then one day he asked me to hang out, but I was already busy and declined. He then called me and broke it off with me, then he got agitated when I didn't fight to keep the relationship together (I was too hurt to want to do anything). I spent much time since then wondering what went wrong, we had never fought, every moment we spent together was amazing and blissful.

Six months ago I found out one of my guy friends went on a volunteer project in Thailand with him, and I found out through him that the whole thing was a bit of a mis-communication; apparently I wasn't there for him that night, when he really needed my support because his parents were splitting up. My ex had failed to communicate that with me, if he had I would have tried to fix things so so long ago because he's still always on my mind. About 6 months after our breakup I went on Facebook and discovered he had unfriended me. Now that so much time has passed, would it be OK to add him on Facebook? Or would it be a little creepy?

[Zeurich]

Oh girlie sorry for this situation. If he has unfriend you that means he is not happy to see you there right, and yeah if he did not tell you why he wanted you to hang out, there is no way that you can back him up. What I feel broken is broken let it go from your head. Even if you guys get together again if he starts dragging " you ignored me at the time when I wanted you the most " you will be hurt more than ever. It is been 6 months and I think you should let it go, because instead of letting you know why he wanted to hang out so badly, he just broke up with you. So he might do it again then is not that you in pain? Let him away from your FB and what if he start dropping things to hurt you. Some people do that too.