aarsky Posted March 1, 2005 Share Posted March 1, 2005 After not seeing my ex much between last summer and this past new years, and after her telling me she wanted nothing to do with me, why did she all of a suuden want ot share the news she's pregnant with someone else's child? I've been trying to maintain a friendship with her somewhat, but now I'm finding it more and more difficult to believe anything she says. Considering she was the one who, when we spoke last June and again just before the new year, said she didnt need a man in her life and wanted to look after her daughter. Then with this news, I find out she was seeing the guy for about three months before the new year and into the new year. Supposedly, however, he up and left on her and moved away to take a job in anohther country. Why would she be so mean and cruel to say one thing and after all the times she said how dishonest I was to her? Link to post Share on other sites
brashgal Posted March 1, 2005 Share Posted March 1, 2005 This is why you need to cut contact - you're being jacked around again. Don't let her hurt you - move on, she's poisonous. Link to post Share on other sites
Mz. Pixie Posted March 2, 2005 Share Posted March 2, 2005 I take it that this was a dating relationship??? My BF had the same thing happen to him in his MARRIAGE! Married a year, had a child. When the child was two BF was working two jobs to pay off debts they had accumulated when the child was born (he had a few problems, nothing too serious but costly stuff). The one weekend night he had off she wanted to go out "with the girls". She did this every week and he felt he should give her a break since she was at home with the son alot. They were fighting alot- she would come in at five am or not come in at all. He finally suggested and got her to agree to counseling. Second session she says she doesn't love him anymore- she moves out soon after. Fast foward- turns out for 18 months she had been seeing this other guy. She was PREGNANT with his child before their divorce was final. He has a child with this woman and she will be in his life for a long time but he took it as HER loss. It hurt him terribly for a long time but he's come to realize she just wasn't the woman for him if she could do that. Quit talking to this girl- there are many more fish in the sea. Link to post Share on other sites
No Foolin Posted March 3, 2005 Share Posted March 3, 2005 Love and emotion are not logical, brother if it was logical we wouldn't be here. Just like an old school Miller beer commercial "why ask why?". She did what she did, you got off lucky, roll out. Link to post Share on other sites
Ms_Sweetness Posted March 3, 2005 Share Posted March 3, 2005 I think that she probably has no one else to turn to right now and wants you there to comfort her. Link to post Share on other sites
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