Eddy Street Posted August 28, 2014 Share Posted August 28, 2014 (edited) I've been seeing a lot of really odd couples in public in the recent years, where the woman is leagues above the man, at least looks-wise and sometimes in other ways too. Just today I saw a couple that consisted of a guy that looked like a retarded pitbull with baggy shorts, a t-shirt that looked more like a skirt and a backwards baseball cap. The woman he was with, on the other hand, was the epitome of class and natural beauty. She was tall, had almost zero unnecessary makeup, she was slender, had a very nice skirt/dress on, had natural ginger hair, narrow/noble/dignified face, etc... They were holding hands and walking, she was gliding along like Jesus on water and he was walking awkwardly, crooked-legged. I thought WTF? Where do these guys meet these women? Some of these guys are even uglier than I am on my worst day and the women they are with are nearly perfect, like something from a fairy tale, and the men are more animal than human. Do they meet at bars? Do they meet through friends? How can I meet women like that? Edited August 28, 2014 by Eddy Street Link to post Share on other sites
mammasita Posted August 28, 2014 Share Posted August 28, 2014 Well based on your avatar, if that's you, you're nowhere near ugly so maybe there's something else about you repelling said elusive beautiful women. I'm betting this "ugly guy" did nothing out of the ordinary but be himself and be confident despite his obvious flaws. Link to post Share on other sites
aussietigerwolf Posted August 28, 2014 Share Posted August 28, 2014 Yep, I agree. If that's you then your looks aren't ugly at the very least 1 Link to post Share on other sites
StanMusial Posted August 28, 2014 Share Posted August 28, 2014 In their dreams. Take a couple of Nytol and report back tomorrow. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Lipitor11 Posted August 28, 2014 Share Posted August 28, 2014 I have no clue. Ugly guys can get nice looking women. Men have it sooo easy. Unattractive women are screwed. 8 Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted August 28, 2014 Share Posted August 28, 2014 I don't think there is a special place where "ugly men" go to find "fairy tale women"...sorry. I'm sure all these couples met in different places in different ways, like everyone else. And it proves that people like who they like regardless of whether other people think the person is ugly or not in their league or what have you. Maybe these beautiful women, some other folks might not think them that beautiful and maybe these ugly guys are actually cute in the eyes of the their beautiful gfs. 7 Link to post Share on other sites
thefooloftheyear Posted August 28, 2014 Share Posted August 28, 2014 Its also possible that those "beautiful" women are ugly inside and therefore have to bottom feed.... Dont just go by what you see -on just about anything in life.. TFY 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Enjaycee Posted August 28, 2014 Share Posted August 28, 2014 In this world, most women don't look at just a guy's appearance to determine if they are date-able or not. There are many other qualities that are taken into consideration (character, financial situation, financial status, etc.). 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted August 28, 2014 Share Posted August 28, 2014 I remember whole generations of men I thought were ugly, like the first hairless generation. No thank you. My hair-friendly generation of women referred to them all as skinheads and they all just looked like they'd be out burning churches. But obviously every generation has its female counterpart. I'm just very thankful that wasn't my generation, that's all. No hair, no style. Steve Harvey said something I totally agree with on a rerun I recently saw. He said, Used to be, boys dressed for girls. Now they dress for other boys: baggy pants, tank top, etc. It's true. Plus there have been whole generations of girls and guys who just had zero style and no pride in their appearance, all wearing the same 6 shirts from Old Navy or Gap and jeans. Dress boring all the time and bored is how you'll end up in the end, folks. Make yourself special and express your style a little with clothing and hair and you'll reap the benefits. Link to post Share on other sites
dichotomy Posted August 28, 2014 Share Posted August 28, 2014 Plenty of places. First Class Seats on a plane to Europe In a Mercedes Coupe outside a South Beach Miami Club A penthouse party in Vegas. the list is endless 6 Link to post Share on other sites
missfelinefury0076 Posted August 28, 2014 Share Posted August 28, 2014 You want to meet hot women? Easy. Get some self confidence 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Mascara Posted August 29, 2014 Share Posted August 29, 2014 What would an ugly, physically repulsive woman need to do to attract YOU. Answer that, and do the same. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Lani Posted August 29, 2014 Share Posted August 29, 2014 The bank..? 3 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted August 29, 2014 Share Posted August 29, 2014 Rest assured if really unattractive guys have a really good looking woman, he's sacrificed character for looks and is probably with a golddigger or something with extremely bad self-esteem or is very needy. It's unlikely there's a healthy sexual dynamic in their bed. The power balance will be skewed in different facets, going both ways though. It's really not anything to aspire to. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted August 29, 2014 Share Posted August 29, 2014 You want to meet hot women? Easy. Get some self confidence This is 100% your answer. Those ugly men have confidence, enough to feel comfortable to approach and carry on a conversation with these incredible women.....or these guy have a lot of money. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
organizedchaos Posted August 30, 2014 Share Posted August 30, 2014 I've been seeing a lot of really odd couples in public in the recent years, where the woman is leagues above the man, at least looks-wise and sometimes in other ways too. Just today I saw a couple that consisted of a guy that looked like a retarded pitbull with baggy shorts, a t-shirt that looked more like a skirt and a backwards baseball cap. The woman he was with, on the other hand, was the epitome of class and natural beauty. She was tall, had almost zero unnecessary makeup, she was slender, had a very nice skirt/dress on, had natural ginger hair, narrow/noble/dignified face, etc... They were holding hands and walking, she was gliding along like Jesus on water and he was walking awkwardly, crooked-legged. I thought WTF? Where do these guys meet these women? Some of these guys are even uglier than I am on my worst day and the women they are with are nearly perfect, like something from a fairy tale, and the men are more animal than human. Do they meet at bars? Do they meet through friends? How can I meet women like that? It's called confidence. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Allumere Posted August 30, 2014 Share Posted August 30, 2014 ..and in many cases, the so-called beautiful one doesn't see the other as ugly. Yes, many folks taste falls within the social norms as we see proliferated in media however I see many aesthetically unmatched couples, especially with age. I dated a gent that if he had been described to me or I had glanced at in a pic I would have said no way. But when we meet in person I found he was rather attractive, flaws an all. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted August 30, 2014 Share Posted August 30, 2014 Where do ugly guys meet beautiful women? To be honest, most of the 'beautiful' women I've met and interacted with at any length have been in airports. I guess they viewed me as non-threatening, considering I was a stranger. Most were just regular folks but there were a few 'known' (to others) people thrown in. I'm not really into 'known' people so never knew until others recognized them. People are just people to me. That said, when I've seen couples, I can't think of one example of a beautiful (head turner) woman with an 'ugly' (unremarkable in the extreme) man. They've always been reasonably well-matched in the appearance department. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted August 30, 2014 Share Posted August 30, 2014 Like some other posters have mentioned, this situation usually means the beautiful girl is damaged goods. There might be a reason the better looking guys don't want her, but a really ugly guy might deal with it so he can be with someone so attractive. Dude could be rich. He could have a huge penis. Maybe he's just an awesome lover. I've always found that if you f**k your girl right, she will put up with pretty much anything. Men in general do NOT have it easy. Men have to be exceptional in some way to have it easy. We can either be really charming, rich, very good looking, extremely talented, ect. I do agree with you that ugly women are pretty much screwed though. An ugly can can still get a woman if he has other things going for him. An ugly woman is just out of luck. I think ugly women have it really hard out there. This. I do not put so much emphasis on clothes. My GF can't dress for crap. I reap the benefits of having an awesome GF, and I don't care where she buys her clothes. Confidence is the canned response every woman likes to use online, but I never hear that in person. Confidence will only take you but so far. It doesn't matter how confident you are if a woman thinks you look like a troll. If you look like a complete troll not enough money or penis will get you the girl. I'm not sure what difference it makes if you see it on line to hearing it in person. Most common response is usually good sense of humor, but we all know that's a crock. Confidence is the hook, no diff than saying looks are, it's what comes after that determines a connection. Link to post Share on other sites
KaliLove Posted August 30, 2014 Share Posted August 30, 2014 Ugly is subjective. One woman's ugly is another woman's sexy. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted August 30, 2014 Share Posted August 30, 2014 As an example of the range I was speaking to, Julia Roberts with her current H, Dan Moder, and and her first H, Lyle Lovett When I see 'beautiful' women with their partners, overwhelmingly, they fit like Julia and her current H, even though Dan isn't a 'star', rather works behind the camera. Link to post Share on other sites
jay1983 Posted August 30, 2014 Share Posted August 30, 2014 She's a thug lover, bad boy lover, whatever you wanna call it. Get a sleeve tatted on one of your arms and maybe another tat on your neck. You'll be able to attract those even if you're ugly. Link to post Share on other sites
WesternWizard Posted August 30, 2014 Share Posted August 30, 2014 Its also possible that those "beautiful" women are ugly inside and therefore have to bottom feed.... Dont just go by what you see -on just about anything in life.. TFY So true. There are a LOT of VGL women out there who have anger issues or narcissism, just as there are a lot of VGL guys who are arrogant as they come. Link to post Share on other sites
thefooloftheyear Posted August 30, 2014 Share Posted August 30, 2014 Also...never underestimate the capability of big dick.... TFY Link to post Share on other sites
HappyLove Posted August 30, 2014 Share Posted August 30, 2014 (edited) It absolutely is confidence! When's the last time OP approached a gorgeous woman in public? Men nowadays are so afraid of their own shadow they wouldn't dare approach a woman IRL because GASP... she might say no. If you're not confident enough to approach said beautiful woman then you'll be on the outside forever wondering how the other guy does it. Even the man making six figures has to be confident enough to get the girl. There are plenty posts on here with guys who make a lot of money but are lonely because they don't have the guts to approach a woman. Edited August 30, 2014 by HappyLove 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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