krista28 Posted August 28, 2014 Share Posted August 28, 2014 I have been dating this guy on and off for the last six months. he is a snowboarding guy and is very passionate about that. he smokes weed and is really easy going. he and i have tried to make it work for months but it always seems all he can spare to see me is twice a week tops and he thinks thats making a really big effort. i am 29 and expect a bit more.. no matter what i do he just doesnt seem to understand what a boyfriend is...and wont put in that effort...even if it does it slows down... then he seems to think hes been going way out of his way and making an effort..but it really isnt enough for me and not what im looking for and i dont understand. hes so selfish at this point he said he doesnt even want anything to do with me when before he said he wanted to still remain friends..i donno or dont get it...its always me thinking he isnt generous with his time and would rather be with hi friends or family...or doing other things. i even had holidays this summer and he didnt spend any of that time with me..he rather spent time with all his relatives and friends..... and he thought that was enough...can anyone relate to this? why doesnt he get it? ps hes 36 and still single so that could be why..he doesnt put forth the effort. Link to post Share on other sites
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