How do you handle a W/H/BF/GF who doesn't show emotion or affection?

[thefilmguy24]

I want to ask anyone; wife, husband, BF, GF if their SO, W, H has a difficult time showing their emotions? For instance, do they mumble the words “I love you” or do they just don’t say it? Or don’t say it enough? Or they just aren’t affectionate or not affectionate enough? If so, how do you handle this? I know communication is key, but what have you done to combat this issue? What if you have expressed your concern? Any perspective is welcome. Thank you in advance.

[Mirages]

Lots of causes, divide the symptom.

 

a) they don't have emotions, some lack is OK, complete lack may be a sign of a rough past. They learn to be mellow and it helps them cope with their problems.

 

b) they have emotions but do not show them.

 

Anyhow, if dealing with such a person, it may be best to not take myself too seriously with them, giving them a comfortable approach to opening up.

 

Then there is you. Are you particularly needy? Some people just fall on opposite ends of the spectrum in this. The alternative is to find an emotional slingshot who lies and beats you to express their feelings. There are pro's and con's I suspect you seek normal.