WHATINTHE... Posted March 2, 2005 Share Posted March 2, 2005 Recently, I have been catching feelings for a friend. Actually my best friend's Brothers' friend. I mean we get along great. The conversation is fun and light and we flirt and it nice. But, he acts more of a friend than a guy that i would get intimate with. He wont kiss me. He wont even touch me. Not even lightly rub up against me whilst walking by. I mean I know he's a little shy in the sense of making a move on a girl. He knows i like him but he wont make any moves. But i would feel weird having sex with him. Ya know how you just can't picture some men getting serious in bed and moaning and grunting and thrusting? Well thats how I see him. But i don't want to. I would have an amazing time with him. But he acts too much like a friend. Should I be the one to make the first move or should i wait. But i feel like the more I wait, the deeper we are in the "friends" phase and thats pretty hard to get out of. Should i at least address it? If so, how do I? I mean he's a very mellow person. And he might feel awkward. Any Advice? Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted March 2, 2005 Share Posted March 2, 2005 Ah just kiss him. Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted March 3, 2005 Share Posted March 3, 2005 it sounds like you answered your own post. If to you, he is just a friend (or acquantance) then there's nothing more. If he is interested in you, he will try to flirt, kino (touch you) on areasl ike shoulder/arms/back....but since he hasnt it sounds like he just considers you a friend. Unless you have doubts and he appears to be the shy type of guy that's afraid to make moves on girls he likes, then by all means be the aggressive one and make your move. Link to post Share on other sites
SuperFantastico Posted March 6, 2005 Share Posted March 6, 2005 Probably just shy. Jump his bones Link to post Share on other sites
Circles Posted March 22, 2005 Share Posted March 22, 2005 There is nothing wrong with you making the first move. Link to post Share on other sites
EC Posted March 22, 2005 Share Posted March 22, 2005 Ah just kiss the guy... <~~~~~~ dont forget tongue! Link to post Share on other sites
WithOrWithoutYou Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 From your post, it looks like you want him, but you have trouble thinking of him that way, becuase of how he acts towards you, which could just be becasue you have not sent him the right signals... Ahhh, life can be so complicated sometimes... OR NOT! Make the first move, send him those "I want you" signals, and kiss him, then you will know. You might be surprised to find that he is the "getting serious in bed and moaning and grunting and thrusting" type - or not - but at least you will know. Link to post Share on other sites
li'l bunny Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 I take it you're sure he's not gay....? Link to post Share on other sites
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