OraiyonCast Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 Hey people I just wanna ask for advice with regards to my girlfriends condition. the story is, 2 weeks ago my she told me that she was getting stressed on her job (she's a teacher btw) and somehow wants to take resign on her work. We've been together for almost 3 years now and a week ago she's showing things that were far from normal whenever she gets mad. A week after, she told me there was an event on her school and she is one of the moderators in charge on jobs to be done here and there. During that week she does call me everyday but just to say she's going to sleep, which is not the usual routine though, it's also something that I understand because she does have tons of work. And day of the event came, I did ask her if we can go on a date or hang out or something and I was ranting about it because I miss her and I also want her to take her time off from her work to unload some stress. Though, we had small argument cause she doesnt wanna hang out which still happened of course and ended up with a smexy time(well that is normal right? if you know what I mean hahaha). but right after that, suppose to be we're to cuddle and I tickled her for about a minute, i think? she was laughing fit and suddenly went on a crying fit. But, that's where the part I saw that something was off. She was hitting herself, she was drooling of anger and crying. I really didn't know what to do except to stop her from hurting herself and waited for her to calm down. Then, we went to eat and I asked her what happened and why she went on like that, she said it was the stress and she didn't really wanted to be tickled that time. and that's that. Then we discussed about resigning from her work for the meantime and taking it easy for awhile, she agreed with me cause she did say she's already reaching out her limits and patience with her work and ended our conversation that day. Then the following week, she is still working. Yes, resigning isn't that easy and suddenly she went on saying she wants to resign at the end of the school year instead which I haven't agreed with cause of her everyday rants on her stress. but the thing is, this weird fit that she did happened again but this time. I think it's something I can't ignore anymore right? Well I've been stressed too. I do work as a call center agent and I do know how to talk to irate people, but regarding her condition. It's something I don't know how to help her with. Any advise that I can hear from you guys would be good. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Scorpio Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 Since she is a teacher she presumably has health insurance. Consider gently raising the topic of therapy with her. Link to post Share on other sites
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