jennie Posted February 17, 2001 Share Posted February 17, 2001 hey you guys, it seems like when ever i post on here it starts world war three! lol! really tho not a laughing matter.....you have both given me so very much valuable advice yet i am frozen in any decision because of the mood's my boyfriend goes through. if he was either or then it would be easier, but it's like a child abused by a parent who seeks comfort from the same parent that hurts him...does that make sense? my dilema is because his moods are infrequent that it is so hard to make a decision. if he would stay a jerk then it would be so easy or if he stayed nice it would not be a problem, but since it is an intermitten thing that is why i keep posting. laurynn i read your post over and over and i can truly see myself in what you said and i know i need to make a decision but it is so hard cause he can be so loving and so sweet most of the time but when he is a jerk i can't get away from him fast enough! i'm so sorry for all the problems i've caused on here, i never meant to at all! i promise on that! i feel very bad for the long string of conflicts i've cause both of you and others. i will not post this same lame problem anymore as i know i need to finally make a decision but don't know what it will be yet. tony, you have given me so much helpful advice and excellent support that i could not get from my boyfriend about the OCD and medication i'm taking which seems to have stopped working and my dr. wants me to up my dosage, but am hesitant to do so cause i've struggled just to get where i am now! anyway, i don't have any friends if you can't tell, and coming here and posting makes me feel so not all alone. i moved to colorado a few years ago after leaving my family and friends in minnesota and i have just not been able to make friends, in fact i think i forgot how to. at times i yearn so much for the closeness of a close confidant and or friend or someone to cry on their shoulder cause my boyfriend just can't handle my emotions but he is trying and i have to give him that! i'm not looking for pity or sympathy just a friend and i guess i've gone about it the wrong way....thank you guys i will keep you posted, haha! jennie....... Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted February 17, 2001 Share Posted February 17, 2001 We didn't actually start WWIII but we did a pretty good bombing job on targets inside Iraq. Have a great weekend!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Fishbulb Posted February 17, 2001 Share Posted February 17, 2001 hey you guys, it seems like when ever i post on here it starts world war three! lol! really tho not a laughing matter.....you have both given me so very much valuable advice yet i am frozen in any decision because of the mood's my boyfriend goes through. if he was either or then it would be easier, but it's like a child abused by a parent who seeks comfort from the same parent that hurts him...does that make sense? my dilema is because his moods are infrequent that it is so hard to make a decision. if he would stay a jerk then it would be so easy or if he stayed nice it would not be a problem, but since it is an intermitten thing that is why i keep posting. laurynn i read your post over and over and i can truly see myself in what you said and i know i need to make a decision but it is so hard cause he can be so loving and so sweet most of the time but when he is a jerk i can't get away from him fast enough! i'm so sorry for all the problems i've caused on here, i never meant to at all! i promise on that! i feel very bad for the long string of conflicts i've cause both of you and others. i will not post this same lame problem anymore as i know i need to finally make a decision but don't know what it will be yet. tony, you have given me so much helpful advice and excellent support that i could not get from my boyfriend about the OCD and medication i'm taking which seems to have stopped working and my dr. wants me to up my dosage, but am hesitant to do so cause i've struggled just to get where i am now! anyway, i don't have any friends if you can't tell, and coming here and posting makes me feel so not all alone. i moved to colorado a few years ago after leaving my family and friends in minnesota and i have just not been able to make friends, in fact i think i forgot how to. at times i yearn so much for the closeness of a close confidant and or friend or someone to cry on their shoulder cause my boyfriend just can't handle my emotions but he is trying and i have to give him that! i'm not looking for pity or sympathy just a friend and i guess i've gone about it the wrong way....thank you guys i will keep you posted, haha! jennie....... Jennie.......Fishbulb here. I'm kinda new to the room here, but I am in Colorado...if I can help, let me know... Link to post Share on other sites
jennie Posted February 17, 2001 Share Posted February 17, 2001 fishbulb, where abouts in colorado are you? i'm in the arvada area....jennie Jennie.......Fishbulb here. I'm kinda new to the room here, but I am in Colorado...if I can help, let me know... Link to post Share on other sites
Fishbulb Posted February 18, 2001 Share Posted February 18, 2001 fishbulb, where abouts in colorado are you? i'm in the arvada area....jennie Hi, Jennie, I'm in Central Denver, probably 20 minutes away... FB Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted February 18, 2001 Share Posted February 18, 2001 You didn't ask for my opinion, but I think 20 minutes is a very short drive to see a real, live FISHBULB!!! I love that name!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Fishbulb Posted February 18, 2001 Share Posted February 18, 2001 You didn't ask for my opinion, but I think 20 minutes is a very short drive to see a real, live FISHBULB!!! I love that name!!! Just remember, Tony: For Lucky Best Wash, use Mr. Sparkle! FB Link to post Share on other sites
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