R3d Posted September 11, 2014 Share Posted September 11, 2014 I know some of this won't apply to me or isn't possible currently in my life, but I am just curious how it rolls for you guys, because you know, I am always very curious about things. How do you people get your dates, besides OLD? Cold approaches? Meetup groups/clubs? Social circle/asking friends to set you up? Link to post Share on other sites
WesternWizard Posted September 11, 2014 Share Posted September 11, 2014 I buy 'em at the market because I don't feel like climbing a palm tree to pick them myself. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted September 11, 2014 Share Posted September 11, 2014 Never got a date in the way peeps condider what is dating. only had 3 relationships that all were live in and long term. Just felt comfy for the both of us, and just went our merry way with our relationship as if we had dated. The 4th on is LDR and we got to know each other in a slow methodical way that is always growing, even when I think we have made it to the top. I would have traded all the physical relationships for the LDR. As i really did not get to know the women as well. Thinking sex would open them up more. It showed me the opposite of trusting. Some women will need trust to get in her panties, and others don't care about how much they trust you, as long as you keep after what they got, they feel that they trust you in being happy with them. Link to post Share on other sites
hellon Posted September 11, 2014 Share Posted September 11, 2014 Facebook is a goldmine. I think it's declining a bit from what it used to be, but almost every woman uses social media, and you can tell a lot about a girl by the crap she posts online. I met my GF on Facebook. That's all I need to know. How do you "meet" someone on FB? Aren't your FB friends people you already know? Just curious. Link to post Share on other sites
KaliLove Posted September 11, 2014 Share Posted September 11, 2014 When I was in high school I met guys through my friends. Get offline and make some friends your own age. Link to post Share on other sites
organizedchaos Posted September 11, 2014 Share Posted September 11, 2014 I know some of this won't apply to me or isn't possible currently in my life, but I am just curious how it rolls for you guys, because you know, I am always very curious about things. How do you people get your dates, besides OLD? Cold approaches? Meetup groups/clubs? Social circle/asking friends to set you up? Yes Yes Yes OLD because it works 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted September 11, 2014 Share Posted September 11, 2014 How we get dates as adults isn't going to help you too much in high school. I didn't date back then but most people met in school, through clubs, at parties, through friends & at after school jobs. Stay off OLD. I don't think they have a category for your age bracket. Link to post Share on other sites
Author R3d Posted September 11, 2014 Author Share Posted September 11, 2014 lol I don't believe in OLD. Yeah, I know, I was just curios, but thanks for the information. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted September 11, 2014 Share Posted September 11, 2014 lol I don't believe in OLD. It really does exist, I assure you! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Mysterio Posted September 14, 2014 Share Posted September 14, 2014 OLD and cold aproch. The thing with me for CA is tricky. Unless you interact with the person you like at least 10 times. CA's fail. I am getting to the point where it seems like things work to my favor if the woman likes me. Not me being the driving force. I don' know why that is. Link to post Share on other sites
Cristo Posted September 14, 2014 Share Posted September 14, 2014 Mutual friends, mostly. When I was single, I used to post on Facebook frequently. Conversations on a friend's page might introduce you to other people. Evidently, a lot of guys also just search for women on Facebook, almost like you would an OLD site. I never tried that, but my friend has met a lot of women that way. True. I met some girls off Facebook before. They have to be mutual friends though. Adding random girls doesn't really work and can get you banned. Yes Yes Yes OLD because it works OLD only works for tall, good-looking guys. The average guy will not be successful using OLD. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Cristo Posted September 14, 2014 Share Posted September 14, 2014 OLD and cold aproch. The thing with me for CA is tricky. Unless you interact with the person you like at least 10 times. CA's fail. I am getting to the point where it seems like things work to my favor if the woman likes me. Not me being the driving force. I don' know why that is. Cold approaching generally doesn't work. I did it A LOT when I was younger. And you have to approach a ton of girls before anything happens. If you value your time, you will not waste it doing this. However, there's nothing wrong with approaching throughout the day if you see an attractive woman (I do know people that met this way and are in successful marriages). Just don't go out of your way for it. Link to post Share on other sites
central Posted September 14, 2014 Share Posted September 14, 2014 Virtually all of my 100-plus dates were via OLD, adult dating sites, or swinger sites. One or two were from meet-up groups. One or two were at parties, one was through a mutual friend I encountered at a bar. Link to post Share on other sites
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