Any ladies get frustrated when a guy has not asked them out?

[MissBee]

A handful of times. I liked a few guys and thought they were interested back, but once I made a move it turned out they weren't interested.

 

After that embarrassment, I now would never continue having interest in a man who's intentions are unclear. If I have to question whether you actually are interested in me, I will move on.

 

Ditto.

 

If you haven't made a move I just assume you don't like me that much.

 

If I've especially given you the green light so to speak and you're still that shy or still don't make a move, I'll go from frustrated to completely losing interest. I like a man who shows more initiative personally and am not really into the whole you need to be coaxed and prodded like a scared puppy thing. I get shy and reserved. My own bf is definitely more reserved and shy but when I showed interest he made no bones about sealing the deal.

 

Shy I can work with...cripplingly shy to the point of walking you through everything where you can't even ask me out or make a move even if I have so much as said "I want to go out with you" then no...I can't deal with that.

[somedude81]

Here's a question, how many women actually give signals that they like a guy?

 

Do they think that the guy is able to pick up on their signals?

 

Most of the time a woman's signals are far too subtle for men to pick up on.

[Darren2013]

Here's a question, how many women actually give signals that they like a guy?

 

Do they think that the guy is able to pick up on their signals?

 

Most of the time a woman's signals are far too subtle for men to pick up on.

 

 

Those are valid questions but that's not the issue I am talking about in this thread. Those questions are better suited for another thread. You ought to start your own with those questions.

[somedude81]

Those are valid questions but that's not the issue I am talking about in this thread. Those questions are better suited for another thread. You ought to start your own with those questions.

 

They're not what you are talking about?

 

Then what are you talking about?

[Darren2013]

They're not what you are talking about?

 

Then what are you talking about?

 

I am talking about a situation where the interest is obvious on both ends but the guy not making a move and the potential that has to frustrate a woman who wants him to ask her out.

[somedude81]

I am talking about a situation where the interest is obvious on both ends but the guy not making a move and the potential that has to frustrate a woman who wants him to ask her out.

 

Oh.

 

Then if you know that the girl likes you, why not just ask her out? What are you afraid of?

[Darren2013]

Oh.

 

Then if you know that the girl likes you, why not just ask her out? What are you afraid of?

 

Afraid she won't enjoy my company. Afraid that I won't do a good enough job showing her a good time.

[somedude81]

Afraid she won't enjoy my company. Afraid that I won't do a good enough job showing her a good time.

 

Sounds like you have low confidence.

 

If you go out with her and she doesn't have a good time, what do you think is the worst that will happen? Odds are she just wouldn't want to see you again. And that's if you have a horrible date.

 

To maximize the chance of her having a good time, invite her to do something you know she likes.

 

Stop worrying and just have fun.

[Keenly]

Yeah, I do get frustrated, I don't know, if the guy doesn't ask me out, that just means he ain't interested.

 

This is actually not true, but okay.

 

.women are just as guilty if they don't make anything happen for themselves in this situation. Sitting on your behind and then getting frustrated when nothing happens is pretty self fulfilling.

 

 

Ladies. If you are interested, make a move. If you don't, you are 50% at fault for the non action that ensues. Make your own happiness.

[Tayken]

 

If you go out with her and she doesn't have a good time, what do you think is the worst that will happen? Odds are she just wouldn't want to see you again.

 

A very good sports athlete once said "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take".

[v8powerage]

Any ladies here ever liked a certain guy and had a strong attraction to him and you instinctively knew he felt the same way but hasn't asked you out did you ever get frustrated or even a little upset that he wouldn't move in and ask you out? If you have a story about that please share.

 

Maybe he's SHY like me and he'll never ask You out, why can't You ask him out???