no_clue Posted September 14, 2014 Share Posted September 14, 2014 Lately I've been thinking about my friends mom alot and fantasizing about her. I've been friends with her son since the beginning of middle school now we are in our early 20's. He recently moved away and I've kind of stopped hanging out with everyone I used to. I have a girlfriend we've been together for almost a year. I still go over to do yard work for his mom and we have conversations about stuff going on around town and about her son who's attitude is still about drugs and money party and bull****. She sometimes asks me for advice and I don't even feel like I'm qualified to give it to her I just try to act more mature around older people. She's probably in her late 40s early 50s. I have a fetish for older women and back in middle school alot of our friends thought she was hot. Now she is a little older and more wrinkles but still has a nice body and face. I need to go back over to finish some work she already paid me for but I'm nervous because I can't stop thinking about ****ing her. Is this wrong should I just do it ,I think I could, but how? I've had sex with one lady that was 50 before and I've been wanting to have sex with older women alot lately. My sex drive is through the roof. Link to post Share on other sites
acapelo_dp Posted September 14, 2014 Share Posted September 14, 2014 I would probably suggest breaking up with your current girlfriend before considering cheating on her with your friends mom. Come on now, consider her feelings and stop being selfish. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Diezel Posted September 14, 2014 Share Posted September 14, 2014 How about you use that "through the roof" sex drive on your girlfriend? Really? Not just a mom, but your friend's mom? What do you think this is... a porn fantasy? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted September 14, 2014 Share Posted September 14, 2014 4 Link to post Share on other sites
gaius Posted September 14, 2014 Share Posted September 14, 2014 (edited) You'd be surprised how common the whole friends mom thing is with men. Start slow with a little bit of flirting and see how she responds no_clue. And try to dump your girlfriend before you go through with anything. =/ Edited September 14, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ja123 Posted September 14, 2014 Share Posted September 14, 2014 Dump you GF. You're stringing her along and being really selfish. Find another older woman to play with. Steer clear of your friend's mom! How would you like it, if he slept with your mom, hunh? Link to post Share on other sites
mickleb Posted September 14, 2014 Share Posted September 14, 2014 Be prepared for rejection. From your friend's mum, and your girlfriend and friend, when they get a whiff of this. Fantasies are rarely made real so easily. Time to learn. Link to post Share on other sites
gaius Posted September 14, 2014 Share Posted September 14, 2014 Be prepared for rejection. From your friend's mum, and your girlfriend and friend, when they get a whiff of this. Fantasies are rarely made real so easily. Time to learn. mickle! You never know until you try. I told one of my ex's I had fantasies like that and she wouldn't introduce me to her mom until after we broke up. Link to post Share on other sites
Allumere Posted September 14, 2014 Share Posted September 14, 2014 so what do you think your friend would say to you screwing his Mom. If I were him and that happened (I will hope his Mom has sense) I would probably beat you to within an inch of your life. Then I would repent and maybe at some point forgive you...but yeah I would pummel you first. Some things are near impossible to turn the other cheek...I think this would be one of them. Link to post Share on other sites
ascendotum Posted September 15, 2014 Share Posted September 15, 2014 so what do you think your friend would say to you screwing his Mom. If I were him and that happened (I will hope his Mom has sense) I would probably beat you to within an inch of your life. Then I would repent and maybe at some point forgive you...but yeah I would pummel you first. Some things are near impossible to turn the other cheek...I think this would be one of them. His mum is a free agent and free to decide who she sleeps with without getting the blessing of her children. She is not naive or getting hoodwinked. If sex went down then its 50% her choice as well. Its like when tough guys discover their gf had an affair they go off and beat up the other guy where in reality the one they should shove is their gf who owed them the duty of love/honor/respect. Both the guy and the mother owe respect to the son, but that fades a bit as time goes by and the son has moved away and they are not close friends anymore. I'm not saying its kosha though. In 'fantasy/taboo' scenarios such as this, I'm sure both parties realize the fallout that could happen with her son, and will keep their mouth's shut about it. While he has a gf though its out of the question and as someone else said he should be putting all his horniness into her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
newmoon Posted September 15, 2014 Share Posted September 15, 2014 isn't this from the movie American Pie? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
DazedandConfused8 Posted September 15, 2014 Share Posted September 15, 2014 I still go over to do yard work for his mom and we have conversations about stuff going on around town and about her son who's attitude is still about drugs and money party and bull****. This sounds like the beginning of every porno... lol 2 Link to post Share on other sites
BeholdtheMan Posted September 15, 2014 Share Posted September 15, 2014 How would you like it, if he slept with your mom, hunh? I'm a Mother Lover You're a Mother Lover We should f__k each others mothers Both: F__k each others moms I'll push in that lady where you came out as a baby Aint no doubt that **** is crazy Both: F__kin' each others moms Cause every Mothers Day needs a Mothers Night If doing it is wrong, I don't wanna be right I'm callin on you cause I can't do it myself To me you're like a brother, so be my mother lover Link to post Share on other sites
bubbaganoosh Posted September 15, 2014 Share Posted September 15, 2014 OK. The question. Is this woman married? Even if she isn't, has she ever shown you any kind of "That kind" of affection? A lot of times a guy (like me) will read something the wrong way like if a older woman is interested in me although I'm 67 and a older woman to me would be dead or near death. All in all, your thinking with your little head instead of your big head and if I were you just cut the lawn, rake the leaves and take a cold shower before you go over. Link to post Share on other sites
MrMeh Posted September 15, 2014 Share Posted September 15, 2014 Just ask her if she wants you to 'mow her lawn' after you finished picking the weeds out.:bunny: 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Allumere Posted September 15, 2014 Share Posted September 15, 2014 His mum is a free agent and free to decide who she sleeps with without getting the blessing of her children. She is not naive or getting hoodwinked. If sex went down then its 50% her choice as well. Its like when tough guys discover their gf had an affair they go off and beat up the other guy where in reality the one they should shove is their gf who owed them the duty of love/honor/respect. Both the guy and the mother owe respect to the son, but that fades a bit as time goes by and the son has moved away and they are not close friends anymore. I'm not saying its kosha though. In 'fantasy/taboo' scenarios such as this, I'm sure both parties realize the fallout that could happen with her son, and will keep their mouth's shut about it. While he has a gf though its out of the question and as someone else said he should be putting all his horniness into her. I don't disagree with anything you are saying....but in the son's shoes my reaction would be the same. If he didn't have a girl friend...there are countless single older women...zero reason to try and tag his buddy's mom. Link to post Share on other sites
Justanaverageguy Posted September 15, 2014 Share Posted September 15, 2014 I don't disagree with anything you are saying....but in the son's shoes my reaction would be the same. If he didn't have a girl friend...there are countless single older women...zero reason to try and tag his buddy's mom. It's all part of the fantasy. The fact it's his friends mom is likely most of the attraction for him. He wants to do something forbidden and wrong - it's what makes it appealing. If she was just a random woman then the appeal wouldn't be there and he probably wouldn't be the slightest bit interested. It's pretty much the same concept as affair sex only he is cheating on his buddy instead of his girlfriend ..... wait no in this case he is cheating on both. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
gaius Posted September 15, 2014 Share Posted September 15, 2014 She's probably one of the first women he beat off to if he's known the guy since middle school. Chances at a night with a girl that's been at the core of your sexual fantasies for that long don't come along everyday. And come on now, what kind of idiot leaves his friend alone to spend time with any of his female relatives. I wouldn't even trust another dude around my grandmother. Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted September 15, 2014 Share Posted September 15, 2014 Soundgarden had a prophetic song about this very situation, called "full on Kevin's mom". Listen and learn. Link to post Share on other sites
gaius Posted September 16, 2014 Share Posted September 16, 2014 Soundgarden had a prophetic song about this very situation, called "full on Kevin's mom". Listen and learn. Are your kids old enough to have friends that are perving out on you yet? Never know what might happen 10 years from now. Link to post Share on other sites
Author no_clue Posted September 17, 2014 Author Share Posted September 17, 2014 Well she's not married and she was telling me this guy wanted to move in with her but she didn't want him too and she asked me what should she tell him as an excuse not to move in. She hasn't showed me any signs like that really but she's nice to me and we've had conversations on the phone for like 30 minutes or more at a time talking about her son and crazy stuff going on. She thinks I'm mature and she knows I'm good at getting jobs and working I still haven't been over there. She's probably mad at me because I left a little bit of the yard uncut and I never came back to weed eat because I'm nervous because I really want to give it to her she's so sexy to me it would really make me feel great. With regards to my girlfriend our relationship is falling apart I've been thinking she's cheated on me so I kinf of want to do it to get even Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted September 17, 2014 Share Posted September 17, 2014 Are your kids old enough to have friends that are perving out on you yet? Never know what might happen 10 years from now. Sadly, yes. Married or single, I'd never do that to my kid. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TheGuard13 Posted September 17, 2014 Share Posted September 17, 2014 Silly question... Has she given you any indication that she wants to have sex with you? Because if not, it's kind of a moot point. Link to post Share on other sites
Coil Posted September 17, 2014 Share Posted September 17, 2014 Tag for Updates::: Break up with the girlfriend first. Then let us know how it all goes! Link to post Share on other sites
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