memomma Posted March 5, 2005 Share Posted March 5, 2005 Once again......my husband is not talking to me. It doesn't surprise me or really even bother me that much. It just bugs the crap out of me. The thing that bothers me is not knowing exactly what I did this time to upset him and make him decide to not talk. I'm talking not talk at all. Not hello, goodbye, I'm leaving, I'm home....nothing. He started this on Weds. morning and even though I've seen him since then....nothing. I guess one could ask "have you talked to him?" and I'd have to be truthful and say no.....when he does this......and he does it alot......I feel as if it's his decision to stop talking and so be it. It's just weird. He knows that I'm seriously considering divorce.....at least I think he does because I have attempted to talk to him about it.....I have went so far to secure an attorney. I'm just kind of waiting to get things in order before I go see her to begin the procedure. I recently withdrew 1/2 of the money we had earned from a sale of some property from our joint savings account. He had placed the money in there without discussing what we would do with it and after I had told him I was thinking of moving down South, I became concerned that he would take all the money out of our joint accounts. I went ahead and paid off some bills that I had, secured the attorney and bought a motor for my son's truck. I had planned to tell him about doing this but because I knew he would be angry no matter when I told him....I haven't told him about it yet. I only took my 1/2 of the money so I don't feel like I did anything wrong other that doing it without discussing it first. I wish we were able to discuss things but we're not. So I'm wondering.....maybe he knows the money is gone and for whatever reason is not willing to talk about it. I could be way off on this but I don't know what else could be wrong. The whole reason I am filing for divorce.....a big part of it I mean....is the lack of communication. It makes me crazy. Link to post Share on other sites
Breathe Posted March 5, 2005 Share Posted March 5, 2005 Communication definately needs to be a two way thing. You should approach your H and ask him if he will sit down with you and talk. Explain to him how you feel, what you want or need and what you expections and plans are. Explain to him about the money, the reasons behind it. Just explain away everything. This will then put the ball in his court to react. Then go from there. Link to post Share on other sites
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