NotMeToo Posted March 5, 2005 Share Posted March 5, 2005 ...in bed??? I have never had such amazing sex before...I think this is one of the reasons I can't let him go. What is it about MM in bed? Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted March 5, 2005 Share Posted March 5, 2005 Originally posted by NotMeToo ...in bed??? I have never had such amazing sex before...I think this is one of the reasons I can't let him go. What is it about MM in bed? MM are master manipulators of women and being good in the sack is one of his tools. Link to post Share on other sites
newby Posted March 5, 2005 Share Posted March 5, 2005 the mm is not always sooo good in bed, but basically as alphamale said and as has come up through other discussions, they HAVE to try harder at everything they do. they have nothing to lose in one way so they dont have the same fears and inhibitions a SG might have, but they also want to keep you hooked. they know they havent got much going for them (usually as we discussed before they are older, uglier and MARRIED) so they will try extra hard to be extra thorough and attentive in the sack. some manage it, some dont! but its not just that- if you notice they are also much more witty, charming and shower you with compliments like you've never known before, yet somehow manage to do it in a way that doesnt make them creepy! how do they do it? i dont know, they must CONSTANTLY be alert to what works with you and what doesnt. this is why we have to keep one step ahead of them, dont let it work on us! Link to post Share on other sites
Anais Posted March 5, 2005 Share Posted March 5, 2005 Originally posted by NotMeToo ...in bed??? I have never had such amazing sex before...I think this is one of the reasons I can't let him go. What is it about MM in bed? Well some people always like the stuff that neighbor has. LOL DO you think he is good because he is married? Maybe you could ask his wife how good he was when they dated. Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 5, 2005 Share Posted March 5, 2005 Because its sex in a context that knows no obligation, no commitment, and no emotional baggage - its the ability to have sex with someone who is not associated with the "everyday" things. Its sex for the sake of sex. It helps that its done with an edge of danger and taboo as well. It is only good in that context though. Change the context, and the sex probably wouldn't be as "good". Link to post Share on other sites
Author NotMeToo Posted March 5, 2005 Author Share Posted March 5, 2005 I don't mean to sound like it is "just sex" with my MM. I have really fallen for him (laughing at myself for being so stupid)...I guess I am just bummed that I have this amazing connection with him (especially on a physical level), and he is M. Link to post Share on other sites
lynnered Posted March 5, 2005 Share Posted March 5, 2005 i think thats over analyzing with some men in general sex will be good with some it will not be. my XMM love making was AWESOME&communication was awesome too. and i think don't think sex w/o emotion or commitment would be fun for me at all thats just me to each his own. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted March 5, 2005 Share Posted March 5, 2005 Originally posted by NotMeToo I don't mean to sound like it is "just sex" with my MM. I have really fallen for him (laughing at myself for being so stupid)...I guess I am just bummed that I have this amazing connection with him (especially on a physical level), and he is M. this is fine and dandy NOTMETOO but did you ever stop to think that if he was not already taken/married that you probably would have no interest in him? Link to post Share on other sites
MsMree Posted March 5, 2005 Share Posted March 5, 2005 but i find this question insulting. WHO CARES? Link to post Share on other sites
CaughtUp Posted March 5, 2005 Share Posted March 5, 2005 How are you doing? What's going on? Link to post Share on other sites
newby Posted March 6, 2005 Share Posted March 6, 2005 you make me laugh why do you find it insulting? xx Link to post Share on other sites
MsMree Posted March 6, 2005 Share Posted March 6, 2005 Why do i find this insulting... Well i really struggle w/the fact that i am in a relationship w/a MM - someone i love deeply. And WE get alot of "flack" for being OW (a term that i don't relate to in my situation) and to see a topic posted about how they are in bed just really cheapens an already delicate relationship. For me, i really hate being lumped into the OW category and this post is indicative of the reputations we already have - sexual playmates for bored MM - so let us just keep-up w/that stereotype by post'g these types of questions/topics. And, I've said before, I come here for support - this post supports nothing what i struggle with and probably not what alot of other OW struggle w/. Don't get me wrong - i, too, like the occasional lighthearted topics that even you, yourself, have posted - i think this one is different because it is in bad taste. Perhaps i can just go to another post but sometimes i really think i/we should call attention to what i/we find inappropriate - "If you stand for nothing, You'll stand for anything" - As always, i do not deem myself unaccountable - ((hugs)) NEWBY!!! I ALWAYS ENJOY READING WHAT IS NEW IN YOUR LIFE! Link to post Share on other sites
Author NotMeToo Posted March 6, 2005 Author Share Posted March 6, 2005 Sorry if you found this insulting...that is why I clarified in another response that this is not just sex. I really meant the connection that I feel with him that I have not felt with anyone else ever. Seemed like other people have felt this similar connection with their MM...so I was just venting my frustration. Guess I should have phrased it differently. Link to post Share on other sites
MsMree Posted March 6, 2005 Share Posted March 6, 2005 i am just one individual who will not always be pleased by what i read here - but so what!! Who the hell am i? You go right ahead and post what and how you want - i may speak-up if i don't care for something but overall i LOVE the differences and similarities we all share here. Best regards. Link to post Share on other sites
lynnered Posted March 6, 2005 Share Posted March 6, 2005 i considered it lovemaking !!! Link to post Share on other sites
newby Posted March 6, 2005 Share Posted March 6, 2005 ah yes msmree, i understand EXACTLY where you're coming from. in my case i am full of anger and hatred and loathing for mm and found this topic a great opportunity to bash mm for being manipulative. but i can understand what youre saying if i was still with mm. ((big hugs)) to you too msmree xxx Link to post Share on other sites
DoggyDog Posted March 8, 2005 Share Posted March 8, 2005 Why was my MM so "good"....For me he was my "ALL" He showed me what my body could do because I had never felt so many things before. I thank him for that.....even with my ex H and many other men after, I never experience the high I got from what he could give to me. Never did he let me be unsatisfied....I always "came" first (pun on words)...and believe me sometimes that would take awhile....Now I know what I'm missing without him in my life and don'tknow if I will ever have that feeling with another man. Well that's what I got out of the MM and the A..which is over at 4 mos now. This is one reason it's so hard to stop thinking of him....God I hate it. Love DD Link to post Share on other sites
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