Michele Posted February 17, 2001 Share Posted February 17, 2001 My feelings are a bit hurt, to say the least. How long should I give Mr. Toolman to put his hammer and nails down. It is quite obvious that he is consumed with preparing the house to rent out. However I thought we had something special. We would see each other once a week, due to our different schedules, and of course we made love. The last time I spoke with him was last Wedesday, early morning on Valentines day. How long should I wait. Should I call him and ask him to please be honest with me,maybe there is someone else. Or should I just leave him alone, and move on. I need your advice. Yes I'm hurt but I will survive. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted February 17, 2001 Share Posted February 17, 2001 There are just a few things I can add to the answer I posted early yesterday to the post you put up Thursday. You have to go with your feelings. Assuming you have told him exactly how you feel and he seems to put a much greater priority on fixing and renting this house, it doesn't look good. You have a relationship where the communication has obviously degenerated to almost nothing. If otherwise, you would be able to let him know in an effective way just how slighted you feel and the two of you would have been able to come up with a suitable compromise. I can tell you, it wouldn't take much sacrifice for him to make a few hours of time available for you twice a week. On the other hand, he is a man and is likely to be taking you for granted and assuming he can do whatever he wants in this relationship. You have to take some blame here because up to now you have been putting up with it. You will never resolve this problem in this forum. You have to talk with him and quickly. If he can't make you feel a lot more special than he does now, you have no other choice but to move on. Why put yourself through this? Link to post Share on other sites
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