airhawk Posted September 21, 2014 Share Posted September 21, 2014 So me and my friend like the same girl but he asked her out first. He did not tell me but I found out through the girl. He thinks its a date but she asked me if I wanted to come along. Could I assume that she doesn't have intimate feelings for him but just a friend? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted September 21, 2014 Share Posted September 21, 2014 You can't assume anything. I think it would be incredibly awkward if you came along. I would try to arrange something else with her since it's only been 1 "date" with your buddy but you two need to discuss boundaries in your relationship. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted September 21, 2014 Share Posted September 21, 2014 Sounds to me like she'd rather go with you, so don't sweat that she's having a date with him and respond like Donnivain said and just say, "No, that would be awkward, but why don't you and I go out this weekend, just the two of us." Link to post Share on other sites
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