is there a second chance

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This girl Ive worked with for two months now has a bf but was very attracted to me. It was good for about a month. She text me day and night. After about a month I started texting constantly. Coming off as needy. I started to notice she stopped intiating texts then her text got shorter yet all the while I still catch her catching glimps of me at work even staring even when I ignored her at work. She even made her way to come in contact with me. After a while of that her text became one word text to not responding at all. I like this girl so Im wondering if there is any coming back.

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[d0nnivain]

She has a BF. She made her choice & it wasn't you.

 

If you wanted to date her when she started to show interest in you, you should have asked her on a date. Instead you barely responded to her texts & ignored her at work. Of course she went looking for somebody else.

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Thanks for that but She already had a bf. We did go on a date but I didnt start ignoring her until she started with the one word text implying no interest. Even then I wasnt brutal with ignoring he. I just wasnt chasing behind her like all the guys I work with.

[d0nnivain]

the way you phrased it made it sound like the BF was a new development.

 

If she already had a BF what was she doing going on a date with you? If she cheated with you, she would most likely cheat on you so you probably dodged a bullet by having her lose interest.

 

At the very least she was using you to boost her own ego.

 

I doubt there is a second chance here but the that's actually a good thing.

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d0nnivain that was something I needed to hear. More the ego boosting part.