Article about narcissists and why they ignore you after break up!

[loversquarrel]

Silent treatment being a temporary punishment

[me85]

Me85,

You are completely and utterly right. Atleast for us sensitive, hopeless romantics, we have a hard time moving on after being in love with someone. It's not so easy to turn our feelings off like a light switch like some people can. I wish I could be like that, but I can't.

 

It seems we're in the same boat. Our exes only contact us when it's right or convenient for them, and it's a very selfish behavior

, because never once do they think about how horrible it makes us feel, they are too self involved and involved with their own feelings.

 

You are human, and you are going to feel those feelings. Being forgotten is also a fear of mine. But you know what? In the end, these guys will not forget us because of our passion and how much we deeply loved them. Guys like this always come back years later wanting us, and thats when we're over them. I guess that's the karma.

 

Keep your head up and try to do the NC thing as bad as it hurts, it is best for your dignity and he doesnt deserve your attention one bit! You're too good for him from what I see! Keep your head up, hunny!! I'm also here if you ever need someone to talk to or when you feel like contacting him, just contact me! It seems we have a lot in common. Hope you're doing well tonight!!! <3

 

THANK YOU! You are such a sweet girl. I'm doing alright tonight. I'm usually in better spirits. I'm just sick and when I'm sick I get kinda sad. Lol Like, damn it sure would be nice to have at least a friend over to take my dog out for me. I told my ex I was changing my email so that's that. NC begins again! It's just...I'd be lying if I said I don't care. At least, this is how I feel tonight.

 

You PM me anytime you like too! You're right, we are unforgettable to our exes.

[Haydn]

Not for one moment dismissing how you feel. I can relate to all most all you said. Sounds like my ex. Controlling, nasty, and an angel. Went through the rounds of doing all the wrong things to get her back. Truly a miserable place to be but it will get better Sparkles.

[singsparkles]

Not for one moment dismissing how you feel. I can relate to all most all you said. Sounds like my ex. Controlling, nasty, and an angel. Went through the rounds of doing all the wrong things to get her back. Truly a miserable place to be but it will get better Sparkles.

 

 

 

Thank you, Haydn.

 

It feels good to be understood. It's just not a good place to be in. It's very dark and hurtful. I'm sorry you went through all the same things with your ex... I'm guessing you got out of the relationship which is great! Thank you for the support! xx