bignate71 Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 YES! In fact I would date a very obese women(as in 500plus pounds) and I do find them very attractive. What's wrong with finding very obese women attractive? I find them very attractive. Link to post Share on other sites
Allumere Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 YES! In fact I would date a very obese women(as in 500plus pounds) and I do find them very attractive. What's wrong with finding very obese women attractive? I find them very attractive. Absolutely nothing is wrong with it and that is what you are attracted to....its "each their peach". Me, I would say I wouldn't date an obese or overweight guy because so far I have never been physically attracted to someone of the description. Only one was really fit, the rest were average guys...they were active and worked out some but they weren't ripped. I sure as heck am not a hard body or a barbie. I eat fairly healthy but not clean like some ripped guys do. Exercise is important but just as I don't want my life centered around the next meal, I don't want it centered around fitting in 3 hours of training a day. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
jay1983 Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 YES! In fact I would date a very obese women(as in 500plus pounds) and I do find them very attractive. What's wrong with finding very obese women attractive? I find them very attractive. I don't understand that bout black men. I've seen them pass up good looking slender black women for big ol' white girl. WTF Link to post Share on other sites
Candy_Pants Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 I don't understand that bout black men. I've seen them pass up good looking slender black women for big ol' white girl. WTFIt isn't just black men, or men. Obviously that is their preference. Everyone has them!!! Some people think my tattoos are trashy/unfeminine/ugly but that doesn't mean I am hurting for attention!! Link to post Share on other sites
jay1983 Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 It isn't just black men, or men. Obviously that is their preference. Everyone has them!!! Some people think my tattoos are trashy/unfeminine/ugly but that doesn't mean I am hurting for attention!! I really don't care, it works for me. they can have this http://www.punjabigraphics.com/images/13/fat-girl-poster.jpg And my white ass will take this http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_0W3jadxWdr0/S6HBDZ32kgI/AAAAAAAAADE/kRHg1H04z5c/s320/SENLSKER-2.jpg Well call it an even swap Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 No way [answering the OP]. Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 I don't understand that bout black men. I've seen them pass up good looking slender black women for big ol' white girl. WTF Depends on the black girl, some are quite shy from what I heard. Some guys prefer to date white women because we put out more and are often more assertive sexually. Just what I heard. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Natsu21 Posted September 29, 2014 Author Share Posted September 29, 2014 Depends on the black girl, some are quite shy from what I heard. Some guys prefer to date white women because we put out more and are often more assertive sexually. Just what I heard. Wrong on both counts. I'll be blunt and stereotypical based on my experience, but should not be the norm on any account. Black women in general are overprotective, loud, and ovverreact on the simplest things. The slender ones, because of the culture, tend to be OVERLY high maintenance and view status and appearance as a big requesite for them. My experiences with white women tend to be more laidback than this. So if you want a stereotypical answer, there's my take. Me personally, I just usually take what I can get, but I do have my limits. @Jay198 Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 Wrong on both counts. I'll be blunt and stereotypical based on my experience, but should not be the norm on any account. Black women in general are overprotective, loud, and ovverreact on the simplest things. The slender ones, because of the culture, tend to be OVERLY high maintenance and view status and appearance as a big requesite for them. My experiences with white women tend to be more laidback than this. So if you want a stereotypical answer, there's my take. Me personally, I just usually take what I can get, but I do have my limits. @Jay198 'more laidback' = puts out more easily in manspeak so it seems I'm right 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Natsu21 Posted September 29, 2014 Author Share Posted September 29, 2014 Also...Black guys, unless rich or really buff or good looking, won't have their share of the "regulation hottie" white women with a major monopoly of white men at their shoulders. So many of them settle for the ones that...in a word, are seen as unwanted by the general white guys. Which happen to be the bigger women. Is it stereotypical, yes. But stereotypes tend to follow a noticeable pattern. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Natsu21 Posted September 29, 2014 Author Share Posted September 29, 2014 'more laidback' = puts out more easily in manspeak so it seems I'm right *Sigh* More like doesn't make a scene over every small thing. But I gotta stay, in my experience, most black women will make a dude WAIT...and wait...and wait... unless they're thugs, hence...baby momma drama. lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Tayken Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 I don't understand that bout black men. I've seen them pass up good looking slender black women for big ol' white girl. WTF Has it occurred to you that you might have just pigeon-hole a large diverse group of people????? This is akin to sayin' all paedophiles are old White men. We know this is not true generally Link to post Share on other sites
Tayken Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 Wrong on both counts. I'll be blunt and stereotypical based on my experience, but should not be the norm on any account. Black women in general are overprotective, loud, and ovverreact on the simplest things. The slender ones, because of the culture, tend to be OVERLY high maintenance and view status and appearance as a big requesite for them. My experiences with white women tend to be more laidback than this. So if you want a stereotypical answer, there's my take. Me personally, I just usually take what I can get, but I do have my limits. @Jay198 Ahahahahaha.....Good one Link to post Share on other sites
jay1983 Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 Has it occurred to you that you might have just pigeon-hole a large diverse group of people????? This is akin to sayin' all paedophiles are old White men. We know this is not true generally Of course not all of them, but it's to a point where I see it on a regular basis. The pedophile thing is not a good comparison. Here's a better one, entitled women. Of course not all women have an inflated ego and sense of entitlement, but there are enough to where they're not very hard to find. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Tayken Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 Of course not all of them, but it's to a point where I see it on a regular basis. The pedophile thing is not a good comparison. Here's a better one, entitled women. Of course not all women have an inflated ego and sense of entitlement, but there are enough to where they're not very hard to find. I concur with this, and usually feel sorry for my acquaintances who usually point out that if they don't do "what the boss (their wives) want, there will be no nookie for a week or more Calling a partner "the boss" is something I have always dispised! Mutual respect baby...simple as that. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 I don't understand that bout black men. I've seen them pass up good looking slender black women for big ol' white girl. WTF It isn't just black guys, though. I live where there's lots of Hispanics and a lot of them seem to have no issue with big women either. I believe it's more a white man issue. And I think it has to do with the media as much as anything, and entitlement, being raised to think they deserve the house, the car, the trophy wife, some of them. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
jay1983 Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 Wrong on both counts. Me personally, I just usually take what I can get, but I do have my limits. @Jay198 It isn't just black guys, though. I live where there's lots of Hispanics and a lot of them seem to have no issue with big women either. I believe it's more a white man issue. And I think it has to do with the media as much as anything, and entitlement, being raised to think they deserve the house, the car, the trophy wife, some of them. I believe it's what they can get, not their preference. That same man married to the big woman watches mainstream skinny girl porn. Link to post Share on other sites
NJ123 Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 No I wouldn't honestly. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 (edited) ^ You do know there's big lady porn out there, right? So someone is watching it, I presume. Granted, it's in the minority. And some men, especially confident men who don't need to use a woman as a prop, truly like different body types. Edited September 29, 2014 by preraph Link to post Share on other sites
jay1983 Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 ^ You do know there's big lady porn out there, right? So someone is watching it, I presume. Very few people watch it. How do I know, go to any porn site and almost all the videos are regular, anal, gangbang, they'll have foot and dominatrix video in there. Very seldom do I see a BBW video. Link to post Share on other sites
pteromom Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 At the same time, when I see a woman with a large tummy who clearly isn't pregnant holding a XXL large cup of coffee/ smoothie, I can't help but think it's self inflict. I resemble that remark! (Toasts you wiht my XXL large cup of coffee. Mmmmmmm coffee.) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
OwMyEyeball Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 ^ You do know there's big lady porn out there, right? So someone is watching it, I presume. Granted, it's in the minority. And some men, especially confident men who don't need to use a woman as a prop, truly like different body types. Sorry, but that sounds like contrived tripe that gets pulled to guilt a guy into feeling less than confident for his personal preferences, which in this case have strong primal underpinnings. Then again, a confident woman wouldn't be bothered by a man's sexual preferences 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Tayken Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 I resemble that remark! (Toasts you wiht my XXL large cup of coffee. Mmmmmmm coffee.) Ahahahaha...as long as you are happy, that is all that really matters http://180degreehealth.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/soft-drinks-and-obesity.jpg http://sasasherbalife.files.wordpress.com/2013/09/fat-man-with-coke.jpg?w=540 3 Link to post Share on other sites
OwMyEyeball Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 It isn't just black guys, though. I live where there's lots of Hispanics and a lot of them seem to have no issue with big women either. I believe it's more a white man issue. And I think it has to do with the media as much as anything, and entitlement, being raised to think they deserve the house, the car, the trophy wife, some of them. No, it has to do with white people being of European descent and of a racial sub-type where the men select for women who are slimmer and hour-glassed in shape. It's in our DNA. The media only inflates those attributes, it doesn't create them out of thin air. If you look at black and Hispanic focused media you'll see them inflating the traits of women that are considered sexually attractive in those races. Typically thicker, larger build and larger butts. Link to post Share on other sites
StanMusial Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 OP don't knock these fat girls up. You will condemn the offspring to a lifetime of "yo mama so fat" jokes. Link to post Share on other sites
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