WesternWizard Posted September 28, 2014 Share Posted September 28, 2014 I must have attended close to 40 speed dating events (some company-sponsored, some meetups) since '05, and the women I've met at those events are almost all first-timers. I've only been to ONE where about half of them have done speed dating before. AFAIK they seem to be playing a kind of musical chairs---the bar scene didn't work... so they tried OLD, that didn't work for them, so they tried speed dating... who knows what they're trying now. Seems to me like they're playing out a kind of grass-is-greener-elsewhere hunch... they try one thing, and if they don't meet a man they might like, they just pull up stakes and try something else, without trying to figure out why... instead of working on themselves (or being patient), they end up becoming "serial event-ers", sort of like serial daters. Granted, knowing what I like might be a straight-away turnoff to many women, but most of the first-timers I've met at speed dating events talked like they have no idea what they want in a man... makes you wonder why they even bother to put themselves out there. Link to post Share on other sites
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