LeaShy Posted March 8, 2005 Share Posted March 8, 2005 Hi im sure you get this a lot but i am very confused in what to do in my relationship...it starts like this ..we met at a valentines day dance ...i went to his school ...he asked me out...together for like 5 months and then break up...i still ask myself why we did and so does he . But that's what happened he needed time to focuss on school i understood but to this day after being broken up for liek five months we still love eachother its crazy! and he lets evreyone know that he cares for me and holds me and calls me and evreything..now whats the problem...here it is ..we arent going out ...like we do evreything that a couple should do but yah i guess my question really is how do i get him back...while having a label..i am happy right now with the way things are going but i actually want to be with him like known as his girfriend once again ...and like...hear " you guys are like the cutest couple ...your going to get married ...meant to be " ....i thought it was all crazy but now oh my god its soo true we are like we tried evreything to get over eachotha ..but both of us ..lets just say we failed and now he tells me that if we eva got back togetha he would never be able to leave me...its sweet but..i just wish i was his girlfriend...i never thought i would feel soo strong towards a guy but yeah i surprised myself big time...hes evreything i want,..and i am his...theres no one i would want to be with ...okay this sounds obsessive but yah its the truth ...on how im feeling.. i told him all these things but haha not for a very long time but yah how do i get him to see that i should be his girlfriend...i mean he does love me , care for me , trys evreything and anything to be with me......sooo lost kk well i hope u answer this i really need some professional advice thank u p.s i love him soo much and he loves me but like i said to him...if he really loved me he would date me ..im 15 and so is he but oh my god......then again if he dont want to date me ...why would he love..seems weird to mee...well..bie bie Link to post Share on other sites
IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted March 8, 2005 Share Posted March 8, 2005 This sounds tricky. He says he loves you but you guys don't exactly have the label of GF/BF. Did you ever think that he might be using his "school" as a way to get around the label. B/C technically you guys aren't together. So if he were to go out and hook up with someone, you can't get mad. I think he has found a dating loophole. Just my opinion. But to get him back. I think you need to sit down with him and have a talk about why you guys aren't exactly together. I mean if you say he does the things that a couple would do, then what's the problem? Why was it broken off to begin with if you guys were in such a good relationship? The best thing to do is to confront it. Bring everything out on the table and approach it smartly. What can you lose, not a BF Link to post Share on other sites
EC Posted March 8, 2005 Share Posted March 8, 2005 ...i mean he does love me , care for me , trys evreything and anything to be with me......sooo lost Then why isn't he your boyfriend? I think you need to ask him wassup with you guys. Have you ever heard that term "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" Why is he going to ask you out if you already do everything couples do without the title? Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted March 8, 2005 Share Posted March 8, 2005 If you are still sleeping with him you have officially taken on the title Friends with Benefits ( FWB ) Not trying to be nosey ..but are you still sleeping with him ? If you ARE then he has his cake and eating it too...with no committment....I think you need to realize today that he BROKE UP with you....he does not want you as his GF and he is using school as his way out...Remember we need exits out of relationships...I think he just FOUND his.... Link to post Share on other sites
SuperFantastico Posted March 8, 2005 Share Posted March 8, 2005 15!!!! HA HA HA!!! Ok ok, sorry. The first love is always the strongest one. Now that i've said that, I dont understand why you dont see yourself as a couple. You are both still a couple. You do couple things, are exclusive to one anouther and love each other. Where is the non couple part. He 'broke-up' with you because he wanted to concintrate on school. So basically even the 'breakup' wasnt even one. It was more of a time out. I dont see the problem. Only thing thats missing is the official title of 'couple'. But even that is pointless because you guys still do stuff together in public......oh wait am i just assuming that. my 2 centz. Link to post Share on other sites
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