skinut2234 Posted March 8, 2005 Share Posted March 8, 2005 What are the tell-tale signs someone (male or female is cheating)??? Do males tend to act differently then females? My friend says her husband has been acting weird lately- Like very insecure....... Saying things like (you don't pay attention to me and you don't want me....etc) Then he will accuse her of having a boyfriend (even though she does not) Can someone share some personal expereinces from both male and female side on suspecting a cheater? Link to post Share on other sites
jmargel Posted March 8, 2005 Share Posted March 8, 2005 Some signs would be: Change of clothing (ie. is he dressing alot nicer now?) Usually having a happier but cautious attitude Can be more or less sex ------------------ Is he working later at night? No increase seen in your spouse's paycheck. You feel that your spouse usually meets the lover on the same day of the week. Extra mileage on the car. You are unable to reach your spouse by telephone (being told there are no incoming calls after hours). Your spouse returns home smelling of perfume or alcohol, or has make-up on clothing. Your spouse always wears a favorite piece of clothing or sexy undergarments on certain days of the week. Your spouse doesn't give the location of the meeting, who he or she is with, or says what time he or she will be home. Meeting with new friends or associates with whom you do not know, never met or heard of in recent months. ----------------------- Receiving hang up phone calls? Just purchased a cell phone or pager for really no legitimate reason Interested in excerise now, where previously they weren't. New sexual techniques.. Is he all of a sudden intersted in bondage, etc? Could be what his mistress likes to do.. Found any birth control items that aren't yours? Finding hidden lingerie/gifts Unexplained purchases on credit card, or money taken out of your account Taking business trips alone Does he have a female 'best friend' in which he's getting closer too? Him saying 'I need space' out of the blue? These are only a few, and just one by itself shouldn't alarm you to cheating. However finding multiple signs from here can indicate. Best way to find out though it to ask & communicate effectively with your spouse. Link to post Share on other sites
JadeStar Posted March 8, 2005 Share Posted March 8, 2005 Hi I agree with some of the signs jmargel gave you. You can do a google search and it will give you some too, however they are SIGNS meaning just that. They aren't always 100% proof. I would say most of the time a cheater will show a consistant pattern to what he/she may or may not be doing. Also trust you gut instinct. Link to post Share on other sites
Breathe Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 He stored OW number(s) on his cell or written down on something.... but had a man's name next to it or a someone he was doing business with. He also had pin number to a new bank account and PO Box number and put these numbers into the form of a phone number written down someplace in his wallet. Pretty sly.... Link to post Share on other sites
Rosewilt Posted March 11, 2005 Share Posted March 11, 2005 Another sign could be that he gets mad at her out the blue and isolates himself. Link to post Share on other sites
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