heartonfire10 Posted October 4, 2014 Share Posted October 4, 2014 Maybe someone with experience can help me because I don't really relate to this anymore with guys from my past. If you feel like your partner is always going to be "hooked" on a past girlfriend/boyfriend (maybe not romantically or sexually per se, but always going to be in each other lives, etc), is it worth it to continue a relationship or is it a lost cause? I think some people just have that person who can mentally manipulate them into doing whatever because of past feelings or whatnot. Is this a no-win situation or is it a case of "right girl/guy" and the other person will become a distant memory and focus will be only on present relationship? Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted October 4, 2014 Share Posted October 4, 2014 Lost cause, definitely. Besides, why would you be content with being No. 2? Link to post Share on other sites
Spectre Posted October 4, 2014 Share Posted October 4, 2014 Yep, you should not be with someone who is hooked on someone else. Ignoring everything else..what kind of messed up person begins a relationship with someone while still hooked on someone else? That is so selfish..they couldn't possibly actually care or respect the person they are dating. A person is an ex for a reason, and if you can't stop being "hooked" to them then you sure as hell do not belong in a relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Justaguy30 Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 I still have feelings for my ex and I think about her a lot which is why I have not gotten into a new relationship. It wouldn't be fair to anyone else. You guys could take a break and give him or her a chance to get over this other person. Link to post Share on other sites
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