lyndaaxo Posted October 5, 2014 Share Posted October 5, 2014 So, I was seeing a guy and was really into him, wanted a relationship but I felt it was too soon to jump straight into it. I was going on holiday anyway so we agreed to re-assess what we wanted when I got back. A few days before I was due to go we got in a minor argument and it escalated to him saying he didn't want to see me and then ignoring my texts. I left him, went on holiday and had fun. I did meet a guy while there and slept with him but I wasn't seeing said guy anymore so in my eyes I had done nothing wrong. Last night, 4 weeks after we last spoke, about 6 weeks since we last saw each other, he text me telling me he's sorry for everything and wants to make it up to me. I was still angry so I basically told him it was too little too late, and out of spite mentioned the guy from holiday (childish but it just slipped out). He told me it made him feel sick thinking about someone else with me and that he misses me, got scared that he wasn't good enough so left, but found it hard not to speak to me... I'm not sure I believe him. I said we needed to talk face to face, so I will hear him out, but right now I can't see any future, he did what he promised he wouldn't do and he knew it'd hurt me. I can't look past that just yet. I'm not sure if I'm wanting advice, or just to rant, input is welcome though. Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted October 5, 2014 Share Posted October 5, 2014 Stay away from people who don't know what they want. And yeah, you didn't do anything wrong. You were single so you're good to go. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Haerts Posted October 5, 2014 Share Posted October 5, 2014 It doesn't seems like you're still interested on him. I wouldn't even meet up after a month. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lyndaaxo Posted October 7, 2014 Author Share Posted October 7, 2014 A couple of days after his apology he asked me if I was still interested, I was honest and said I didn't know after what happened. He said he'd leave me alone then... Clearly doesn't want me enough if he's not willing to at least fight for me a little bit, it was so easy for him to walk away twice. I want someone who doesn't find it easy. Subsequently I told him where to go 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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