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Why do I have to deal with my parents that are so against my fiancee?


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Me and my fiancee saw a priest yesterday and he told me my dad is so against her just because she is catholic but my dad put put her on a payee program and her credit card bills went up to 7,000. Especially she was not supposed to be required from her doctor but my mom is assuming that she is supposed on it for her opinion. My parents are just making things worse just because they want us to drift away and they don't care if we ending up breaking up just because I just turned catholic but she helped me out with things they don't approve of. We can't get married now when wanted to because my dad is stubborn and has trust issues with anyone that comes from the internet it's not like we don't know each other. We had a friendship prior before everything got worse. Just because my is against her doesn't mean he can manipulate the social security to wreck her credit line. And my family doubted us as a whole because we learn things differently. My fiancee is so stressed just because she's different and don't drive and have a job doesn't mean she can't do anything. My dad didn't even consider how she feels.

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Me and my fiancee saw a priest yesterday and he told me my dad is so against her just because she is catholic but my dad put put her on a payee program and her credit card bills went up to 7,000. Especially she was not supposed to be required from her doctor but my mom is assuming that she is supposed on it for her opinion. My parents are just making things worse just because they want us to drift away and they don't care if we ending up breaking up just because I just turned catholic but she helped me out with things they don't approve of. We can't get married now when wanted to because my dad is stubborn and has trust issues with anyone that comes from the internet it's not like we don't know each other. We had a friendship prior before everything got worse. Just because my is against her doesn't mean he can manipulate the social security to wreck her credit line. And my family doubted us as a whole because we learn things differently. My fiancee is so stressed just because she's different and don't drive and have a job doesn't mean she can't do anything. My dad didn't even consider how she feels.

 

How can your Dad cause her credit card bill to go up to 7,000? Also what do you mean your Dad put her on a payee program?

 

All in all its your decision who you marry and they have to accept it.

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How can your Dad cause her credit card bill to go up to 7,000? Also what do you mean your Dad put her on a payee program?

 

All in all its your decision who you marry and they have to accept it.

 

Georgia....its best that you learn how to read Posters past posts. Once you do, you'll understand why so few answer him...Same issue ...different day.

 

Bronco- take time to read all the valuable advise given to you from all your other post on this issue. Then do something about it. You have to put in the leg work.

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Hello Broncos38, I know how it feels when there is a disagreement in a family about such an important thing as marriage. Have you guys talked to a counselor?

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