Diezel Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 Oh poor girl... SHE is devastated!?!?!? Link to post Share on other sites
Author rikkert159753 Posted October 9, 2014 Author Share Posted October 9, 2014 Not at all. I can get completely blackout drunk (as in, no memory whatsoever) and yet still be perfectly lucid, coherent, and fairly well coordinated. Certainly capable of walking, running, or various sexual acts. Anyway, this girl sounds like a real keeper You already know what you should do, you just don't want to. Why do you say she sounds like a real keeper? Link to post Share on other sites
Toddbt12y1 Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 You'd be doing yourself a thousand lifetimes of favors to leave this girl in the dark. So young. No need to be tied down to some nasty girl.... You'll find better. But worse with her. Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted October 9, 2014 Share Posted October 9, 2014 Why do you say she sounds like a real keeper? He's being sarcastic. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Spectre Posted October 10, 2014 Share Posted October 10, 2014 Oh poor girl... SHE is devastated!?!?!? Hey now, she didn't get to finish sucking the guy off! Of course she is upset. He's being sarcastic. To be fair..he could just be super attracted to trashy women. The song says you "can't make a ho a housewife" but I'll be damned if that doesn't stop some people from trying anyways. Link to post Share on other sites
giblesp Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 Firstly, your girlfriend's state of mind is a cause for concern. If she is cutting herself and having suicidal thoughts, she needs help. How old was the man she gave oral to? I hope she is not going off with strange adult men and doing these things. As regards your relationship, you have just been treated like complete sh#t. Why are you going back to her exactly? Because she is 'so sorry?' She wasn't sorry at the time of betrayal I'm afraid. Is that the sort of relationship you want? Until you let life know that you want a GF that is loyal and treats you well, you're going to keep getting these sort of situations with this girl or the next. I speak from experience. Next thing you know, years have gone by and you have been a doormat to dysfunctional women. That will keep happening until you lay the law down as to what you want, not accepting any compromises. This girl probably wont change in the near future. There's some deep seated dysfunctional patterns in her and its no your job to make her better. The best thing you can do for her sake as well as yours, is to cut her loose for her betrayal. Then it might at least sink into her head that she can't treat people like this, and get away with it like a spoiled little girl. So I really recommend dumping her, and advising her to get some help. At your age, you have so many experiences in front of you. No need to take this sort of sh*t. Link to post Share on other sites
giblesp Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 I don't want to move on, i feel so good when i'm with her, i really can't imagine someone else where i'd feel as good as i do with her, I'm really scared to get depressed if i break up, i'm 100% sure if i'd break up now, i would psychologically break, seriously and so would she she really loves me a lot, really really much Don't be afraid of the pain of heartache. You'll never get anywhere with girls if you're in fear. Yes it will hurt if you break up. So what? You're a man and you'll live again. And by the way, women love it when a man can love them fully, and be willing to take any pain that comes their way. They also love it when a man doesn't tolerate bulls#it. It makes for a strong, trustworthy man. Otherwise, you're just taking abuse on the off chance that someone else can make them feel good. A mother figure basically. You want mom or a woman? Which is more attractive to you? Because to have a woman you have to be a man. You can't have a girl responsible for the way you feel, you're f##ked with that attitude. She doesn't love you man, otherwise she wouldn't have betrayed you. It really is that simple. Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 I'm sorry, but I'm frankly shocked at some of what you just said. You are right about the whole "let her go" since yeah, this girl is a nasty cheater. You are wrong when you try to excuse this as her being just a kid, and you are especially wrong when you say you can't expect someone so young not to fall into situations like this. Really, so you are saying you can't expect a 16 yr. old girl to not at one point cheat on her boyfriend via sucking some other dude off? I honestly don't get this mentality. This girl is 16 not 12. Is she still growing? Yeah, does she know right from wrong? Yes. Does she know you don't put another guys d*ck in your mouth if you have a boyfriend? Yeah. You don't get to excuse this because she is young, because the fact is plenty of people made it through high school without cheating on the people they dated with random dudes they meet on vacation. This is not something normal 16 yr. old's do, this is just something the really trashy ones do. You realize you really did just make it sound like all women at this age cheat, right? I can't imagine that was your actual intent. Dude jump off your bible for a sec. AGAIN I do not condone such behavior nor am I explaining it away, but it HAPPENS, waggling your finger about does absolutely nothing. That is why I don't bother with such blathering. My point IS events like this will happen more often at a young age, with inexperience, consumption of alcohol, drugs, and temptation. You can be all about it being morally wrong and they should know better blah blah blah blah blah. It still doesn't prevent it from happening. Her cheating is beside the point. He needs to let her go and let her learn from her mistake. I'm sure this will not be her last, and I'm sure the OP will find himself in a situation someday where he has poor judgement....we all are only human my friend...only human. The majority of individuals are not as perfect as you. In fact life would be damn boring if everyone was. Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 Dude, let me spell it out for you. Cheaters will only tell you the bare minimum of what happened so it doesn't seem so bad. But, the red flag for me is when your girlfriend was talking to the friend what was with her and she asked if "she told you EVERYTHING that happen that night in bed." Sounds like they had a threesome to me! Other things don't add up too. She stated that she was naked in bed with this guy except for panties because she was on her period. Now, I'm not a girl, but I would think that a girl would want to wear more clothing to bed to provide more protection and avoid a....ummm...messy situation. Not LESS clothes. I'm not buying this story, dude. I think it's time to move on. Heal from this and move forward with your life. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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