totallyunsure Posted October 7, 2014 Share Posted October 7, 2014 I am really keen on a woman I have known for several years,6 days ago she split up with her now ex of 2 years because he cheated on her and so did her only other boyfriend. I know she is someone I can have a future with because I know the real her as she opens up to me a lot and I have no problems asking her out but I don't want it to be a rebound relationship by asking her out too soon and I also don't want to wait too long and miss the chance to be with her. Does anyone have any experience in when you felt you wanted to start dating again or advice in general? thanks Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted October 8, 2014 Share Posted October 8, 2014 A heck of a lot more than 6 days, after a 2 year relationship. Rebound city! Steer clear! Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted October 8, 2014 Share Posted October 8, 2014 Be in the back ground, but date other women. You will increase your value to her if she sees you not being some sucky sap waiting for the right time. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
onemanband Posted October 8, 2014 Share Posted October 8, 2014 That's why it's called dating,a date can be conversation,a drink you may have been with her and didn't think of it as a date just be there for her and she will realize what's in front of her she will give you all the anwser to your question just listen Link to post Share on other sites
DrReplyInRhymes Posted October 8, 2014 Share Posted October 8, 2014 Please be careful, it sounds like you're already in the friend-zone, Chasing after her so soon is something I do not condone, Rebounds will happen, she's upset and probably full of emotion, Court her, flirt with her, but do not do so with devotion. A relationship that long will take time to heal from, especially because he was unfaithful, and shes hurt and on the run, Make sure to base your relationship off of commonality, and not the end of their previous boyfriends impracticality. Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted October 8, 2014 Share Posted October 8, 2014 Agreed. I'm afraid you're friendzoned already; and no one wants to be a rebound, trust me. Link to post Share on other sites
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