friends?

[Mr M]

Having been friends with this girl for a while and having been

 

out together ( just the two of us ) on numerous occaisions I've

 

fallen in love with her and have passed on the opportunity to

 

date other women. I don't think that she's read the signs

 

although we are very flirty with each other. I don't want us to

 

loose what we've got but I think it's time that she knew my

 

feelings. What's the best way to do this? is it a big gamble?

 

also to complicate matters even more she's "casually" involved

 

(non serious) with someone else from her home town( were at

 

university).

[Thiamine]

Having been friends with this girl for a while and having been out together ( just the two of us ) on numerous occaisions I've fallen in love with her and have passed on the opportunity to date other women. I don't think that she's read the signs although we are very flirty with each other. I don't want us to loose what we've got but I think it's time that she knew my feelings. What's the best way to do this? is it a big gamble? also to complicate matters even more she's "casually" involved (non serious) with someone else from her home town( were at university).

I've had this exact same situation, except the person had a serious girlfriend, which didn't benefit to me at all I really think you should tell her how you feel, but try to now make it too heavy and serious, that's never fun. Possibly when you two are out on a date, as you've said you do a lot, just come out with it..it's easiest to, ya know, "just do it" Best of luck!!!

 

Love,

 

Thiamine