GirlDown Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 What's the deal with these posts, exactly? If you ask anyone in a normal relationship, they are going to say that: 1. their needs are mostly met 2.the sex is good 3. the penis is big (or the best they've ever had) 4.it's not perfect, but good enough for now, and it's being worked on 5. the man's got it all and more 6. they are happy with one or two exceptions so what is the point of all this? no matter who you're in love with (or think you're in love with) you are going to be looking through rose-coloured glasses. (or in some of these cases, opaque lenses.) but still... why is any of this different for women dating other women's husbands? and why does it matter? Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Spock Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 You mean people asking questions TO the OW/OM or OW/OM asking questions to the forum. Not quite getting the gist of your question. Link to post Share on other sites
Author GirlDown Posted March 9, 2005 Author Share Posted March 9, 2005 Originally posted by Mr Spock You mean people asking questions TO the OW/OM or OW/OM asking questions to the forum. Not quite getting the gist of your question. all the actual created posts directed at asking OW about relationships with their MM. there's been like 6 of them, and i was just wondering why it was so important to someone who wasn't in that situation, and why all those thingsl can't just stay in one place. Link to post Share on other sites
Breathe Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 These questions are asked in order to gain insight and understanding. Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 I've seen them too, there are quite a few. Link to post Share on other sites
Author GirlDown Posted March 9, 2005 Author Share Posted March 9, 2005 Originally posted by Breathe These questions are asked in order to gain insight and understanding. yes, that i understand. it just seems a little silly to create 1.2 billion new posts to ask these questions... soon it will be at a point that it's like "Do OW with MM like their MM to wear blue socks or black socks?" and then " Do they wear one colour with their wives or with you?" and then "Does the colour of a MM socks make sex better?" Link to post Share on other sites
izzybelle Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 "Does the colour of a MM socks make sex better?" argyle, definitely argyle!!! Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 Originally posted by GirlDown yes, that i understand. it just seems a little silly to create 1.2 billion new posts to ask these questions... soon it will be at a point that it's like "Do OW with MM like their MM to wear blue socks or black socks?" and then " Do they wear one colour with their wives or with you?" and then "Does the colour of a MM socks make sex better?" Or "Do you think my MM's sex with his WIFE is as good as ours is?" Link to post Share on other sites
liswil Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 I don't see anything wrong with those threads. How else is a person supposed to get answers? Maybe they wonder if their perception is normal or that they aren't seeing things clearly. Personally what I don't like about forums on this topic is when people just want to judge the person on what they're doing instead of helping them with their specific issues. Link to post Share on other sites
Sad Flower Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 I agree with BREATHE These questions are asked in order to gain insight and understanding. If a person takes the time to come to LS and put up a post to get quetions for the answers they need then so be it. This is a free forum to help with whatever issues we have as the OW or OM. Why did you feel the need to start this post, Why was it important to you??? Just as silly as our post may seem, so is this one. It was a thought you had so you felt the need to post the question, exactly what the OW are doing, feeling the need to post to get an answer for the question that is bugging them!!!!! So should we come here to LS to ask OW who have been there or are there or should we call the MM while his wife isn't around to get the answers to the questions we have?!?!?!? Link to post Share on other sites
Author GirlDown Posted March 9, 2005 Author Share Posted March 9, 2005 hahaha, you guys are funny. well some of you! and to the other ones, blah blah blah. the person asking these questions wasn't asking for help, they were mainly doing it to judge and start problems, which was happening in those posts. i will only ask this question once. not again tomorrow and the next day with one word changed in the title just for no reason. my point was that these relationships are like any other, but the difference is that it's with a married person involved. Link to post Share on other sites
liswil Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 So I wonder what we ARE supposed to post here. Hmmm.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author GirlDown Posted March 9, 2005 Author Share Posted March 9, 2005 i never said anything about YOU. i asked about a specific poster and posts. Link to post Share on other sites
liswil Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 Oh, I thought it was posts in general that asked about why the MM does this or that. Link to post Share on other sites
izzybelle Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 i'm confused... i know it doesn't take much somedays... maybe can we just go back to talking about socks? seriously, if i see a thread that i don't find interesting, i don't read, and if i do and i'm not interested i don't post. Link to post Share on other sites
Author GirlDown Posted March 9, 2005 Author Share Posted March 9, 2005 Originally posted by izzybelle i'm confused... i know it doesn't take much somedays... maybe can we just go back to talking about socks? Link to post Share on other sites
Sad Flower Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 seriously, if i see a thread that i don't find interesting, i don't read, and if i do and i'm not interested i don't post. Right, Exactly what i do!! THIS POST IS A WASTE OF TIME Link to post Share on other sites
Breathe Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 Some people ask questions just to strike up conversation - not always to debate. If you don't like the topic, don't read it - don't respond to it. It's just this simple. Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 Originally posted by GirlDown i will only ask this question once. not again tomorrow and the next day with one word changed in the title just for no reason. Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 Originally posted by Sad Flower THIS POST IS A WASTE OF TIME No it wasn't. I enjoyed it. Originally posted by Sad Flower Right, Exactly what i do!! Huh?! You're here aren't ya? You're not ignoring this thread by ANY means. Link to post Share on other sites
Author GirlDown Posted March 9, 2005 Author Share Posted March 9, 2005 Originally posted by Sad Flower Right, Exactly what i do!! THIS POST IS A WASTE OF TIME um, then why are you here... hypocrit Link to post Share on other sites
Author GirlDown Posted March 9, 2005 Author Share Posted March 9, 2005 Originally posted by Breathe Some people ask questions just to strike up conversation - not always to debate. If you don't like the topic, don't read it - don't respond to it. It's just this simple. after you... Link to post Share on other sites
Author GirlDown Posted March 9, 2005 Author Share Posted March 9, 2005 tiki, the most attractive thing about you (besides your breasts, of course) is your sound mentality... Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 Originally posted by GirlDown tiki, the most attractive thing about you (besides your breasts, of course) is your sound mentality... Right. Link to post Share on other sites
Breathe Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 Angry much? Link to post Share on other sites
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