Illusion24 Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.....I have a huge problem...please give good advice and realistic ones!! The other day an old from my past who I cheered with and went to high school with called me and wanted to talk and see why it never worked out between us. He said I was the perfect girl for him and that I've known him all my life...(this is the guy I talked about in another forum) He wants someone who is affectionate, humorous, talented, and smart....I am very affectionate, my friends tell me I'm hilarious and as far as talent well he knows that part...This guy, lets call him Lozano, was always the "what if"....He is starting a new business in graphic design and he mentioned he wanted a strong woman by his side to manage his company too...Well it just so happens my major is Business Management!!!! Everything is pointing toward this guy...ggggggggggggg why now why me...but wait it gets better..he's 26 years old, with a house and a career!! About 10 minutes ago I get a phone call from ANOTHER old friend of mine that I use to date but only for about 2months nothing was made of it cause we seemed to be better friends...Now this guy is a model...he's the one that got me my contract in modeling a couple of years ago...I also cheered with him and let me tell you this guy is fine...very well off just became a fire-fighter and just bought 2 houses...he's 21 with a career and house... NOW THE BOMB!!! I HAVE A BOYFRIEND!!!! WHY WHY WHY WHY????? THESE TWO GUYS WERE THE FINEST, FUNNIEST GUYS I'VE EVER MET...AND WE HAVE HISTORY TOGETHER!!!! Remember I wrote about "Does Age Matter"...I think I answered my own question from my observations of the men who are around my age and have what I have...career and house with everything else!!! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 What does your boyfriend offer you that these guys can't? What led to the breakups with these other guys, and is it likely to surface again regardless of all the nice material things they offer? What do these guys offer that your boyfriend can't? If you lost either, what would you be losing? You'll have to decide what is best for you, and act accordingly. If you do decide to go with one of these other guys you'll want to break it off with the boyfriend first. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Illusion24 Posted March 9, 2005 Author Share Posted March 9, 2005 I would never start a relationship being with someone else....My moms always told me " you can have as many man as you want but one at a time". My bf doesn't really offer me anything but materialistic which is great...he makes me feel good about myself and treats me like a princess...I can't lie I do have a great relationship and I don't want to do anything to ruin it.... With Lozano...We never really spoke about it...we both felt the same way about each other..."a person I can love" but never wanted to break up the friendship we valued each others friendship to much...and for some reason if he was single I was taken...if i was single he was taken so it's always bad timing... As for the other one we never were 'official' it was an attraction between to people and couldn't be more because he had just breaken up with his ex and I didn't want to be a rebound so I held back a lot from him...but we stayed friends... These guys aren't a good enough reason to leave my bf it's just such a huge sign to me...it's showing me how guys my age are more established and what I'm looking for right now in my life...I am very stable in my life and I know what I want...my bf is not stable at all he just started school.... These guys are old friends that I've always kept in touch with and always will but both want to offer me something ...but is it enough?? Link to post Share on other sites
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