Just Broke up, going to visit her in a month, maybe I can win her back?

[humanrevolution]

Hey,

So ill try to be brief.

My ex-girlfriend and I met at summer camp, and fell in love over the summer. At the end we were so attached we decided to keep dating, even though it was long distance. We had 3 little fights, and then one big one were she asked for a week break. After the week we talked and she decided to break up with me. She said she didn't realize all the work she had to put into a relationship, or want ruin the memories we had already made together. Also that she couldn't be involved at a level that i deserve or want. We both said we love each other, and that it was extremely special, because we are each others first love.

 

Anyways we ended. During our long distance relationship, i booked a flight to her city. We talked about it and Im still going to go see her because its important to end the relationship with physical contact, actually seeing the person. I told her that I would stay at a hotel, and she told me why bother, and to stay with her instead. We also discussed that we would still have sex when i visit her.

 

So I have a month to let things cool off, before I see her. I know things are hard for her, but I can change my expectations (talk to her once a week or whatever) to make it work for her. Are there any suggestion on what I could do to win her back?

[humanrevolution]

I was thinking... should I take the month of or should i continue messaging her and communicating?

[Retired1]

Go NC if u want anything good for u to happen in a month