star_shooter Posted October 10, 2014 Share Posted October 10, 2014 Hi All When they say "She plays games", etc. What do they mean? What types of games do they play, etc.? Thank you All Link to post Share on other sites
Dork Vader Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 When a person says someone plays dsting games, they are essentially saying the person is not serious about dating. They will play hard to get. They will only be interested in you when you ignore them. They will inetentionally ignore text messages and so on. They will intentionally do things to make you jealous. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
LoneIsland Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 They want to be your friend. It's a funny game that. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 It means the person is not genuine. They are saying / doing one thing but aren't sincere. They make the other person think they care more than they actually do. Link to post Share on other sites
Lernaean_Hydra Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 It means the person is not genuine. They are saying / doing one thing but aren't sincere. They make the other person think they care more than they actually do. Or vice versa. Pretending to care way less than they do as an attempt to gain/maintain control and keep the other party in a constant state of confusion is a common "game" too. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
GravityMan Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 What kind of Games do Girls/Women play? Fixed that for you. Mature people don't play games. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Blade96 Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 I hate games. One of my friends liked a girl and wanted her to return his affections. But she played games for months, wouldn't tell him if she liked him or not. Eventually he got so stressed he had two panic attacks and was on meds for a while. I would never play games. If you know what you want, tell them. If you don't know if you like a person or not, then just say so. I advised my friend to go NC but he hasn't been able to stop talking to her yet. He's still messed up over it. My friend's the kind of sensitive lovely soul who'll give a girl the shirt off his back if he likes them....pours his whole heart and soul into it for family friends and the girls he likes. Games can actually make someone ill if they can't handle it. Not to mention it's just rude to waste people's time like that and play with hearts. Don't play games people! Link to post Share on other sites
Dallers Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 It depends. There are games and there is the chase. I like to play the chase and it is closely considered gaming. I do not want to intentionally cause someone emotional distress, I just like the banter back and forth and the thrill and passion thrown in. I make it clear that I am not interested in serious obsessive neediness which comes from most insecure people looking for someone to repair them. As long as she is game too then she is my type of girl. It comes down to what you really want because if I meet a girl who wants a relationship I am obvious by the way I act and talk and they quickly vanish when they realise they will not be able to keep up with me. I also intend for it to reach something not just hang around ignoring and playing the other person for attention or to make me feel better about myself. Link to post Share on other sites
GemmaUK Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 I can't tell you. If I told you I would have to kill you. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 Hi All When they say "She plays games", etc. What do they mean? What types of games do they play, etc.? Thank you All Only one way to find out. Link to post Share on other sites
Mister Zen Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 Games are basically any type of calculated behavior designed to get a certain outcome. Its when a woman doesn't act genuine.. but instead tries to manipulate the man or holds conference calls with her friends to decide how she should act certain situations with him. Link to post Share on other sites
Tayken Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 When they say "She plays games", etc. What do they mean? Plain and simple: - That she thinks the world revolves around here - The sun shines out of her you know what, and everybody else should just bow - That she indulges in head games / drama - Thinks being juvenile will yield a positive result. Link to post Share on other sites
Gloria25 Posted October 11, 2014 Share Posted October 11, 2014 -The o'l "How do I look in this?" or "Do you think I'm fat?" That's a favorite game that has carried on for probably centuries... If I can think of more, I'll post more... Link to post Share on other sites
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