snoop_dawg22 Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 The word for today is regress: As found in Merriam-Webster Dictionary Pronunciation: 'rE-"gres Function: noun Etymology: Middle English, from Latin regressus, from regredi to go back, from re- + gradi to go -- more at GRADE 1 a : an act or the privilege of going or coming back b : REENTRY 1 2 : movement backward to a previous and especially worse or more primitive state or condition Listen. Why should we regress? Why should we want to be back with our ex? I've come to a turning point. He was not for me. Don't sit and pine away for someone who doesn't want to be with you. We have to pick ourselves back up. Even through the hurt and pain. We will come out strong. Don't let your ex get the best of you. They are off enjoying life and we are stuck crying and wondering. Let's try to move on and find true happiness! Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 I've come to a turning point. He was not for me. Sounds like you are healing! It's a great feeling. Link to post Share on other sites
Universe Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 Straight up! Link to post Share on other sites
Author snoop_dawg22 Posted March 9, 2005 Author Share Posted March 9, 2005 Guys I just had to get that off my chest!! I had to post b/c after looking at myself in the mirror on my desk and seeing the tears I told myself that I've had enough. I will not cry over this guy. Actually I'm not, I'm crying over a feeling. Which will only be healed by time. I am not putting anymore energy into him. Becasue as the days go by and he hasn't contacted me just fuels the fire! Leave him alone and move on! I'm trying and I'm not saying it's easy but I've come to face the fact that I DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER!! We all do ( that's coping ). Right Uni? Link to post Share on other sites
beejsea2 Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 I know that it's a cliche' but time will heal all wounds. When I first found this site in October I never thought I'd get to the point where I'm at now. But there are days that I regress and than I get mad at myself...but I pull myself up by the boot straps and start over knowing some day I won't think about my ex or any of this. I hated hearing it from people when I was dumped but in due time I know that I'll be okay again. I know that I'll feel again...and right now all I'm doing is giving it "time." Link to post Share on other sites
search4what Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 Snoop I am right there with you. It is like I take one step forward and then ten steps back. I was stupid and called the ex on monday and she told me she would call back after work, what do you know, I am still waiting for that call. I am kinda realizing that I just have to stop all this crap and just leave it alone. If she doesnt want to be with me after 3.5 yrs well then I cant force her to. I only wish moving on was as easy as some people think. Time will heal us all, some slower than others but we just have to keep trucking away and one day we will all find that happiness that we crave. Good luck all with getting through these shltty times, I know I need it Link to post Share on other sites
Author snoop_dawg22 Posted March 9, 2005 Author Share Posted March 9, 2005 I think we all cope in different ways. I personally feel that I may have some down days again but I will not contact him. In any form or fashion. I have to be strong. But when I get weak I tell myself, he doesn't want to be with you. Why put yourself through this? Now he's not the one hurting me, I am. I have to pick myself back up, move on, and I'll be ultimately happy. Link to post Share on other sites
beejsea2 Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 Snoop there's no doubt in my mind that you'll be okay. I'm five months since the break-up and there are days here at work I'll get teary eyed for no particular reason. Than I ask myself the following questions 1) Is he thinking of me?? NO 2) Does he miss me?? NO than I kick my self in the ass and say well start acting like him...even though I'm a caring person but you get my point! Link to post Share on other sites
Author snoop_dawg22 Posted March 9, 2005 Author Share Posted March 9, 2005 I understand!!! It's not that I want to hate this person. And I don't want that ( hate ) to set in either. So it's good that he hasn't responded to me. It would proably make me mad. He's say something half assed and I'd get upset. But the best thing now is to MOVE ON. I have to. Thanks for the convidence. It's only been 2 weeks since the offical break up. The first week I was great. This week sucks butt!! But that's something that I'll write off. I'm only looking at the good now. Link to post Share on other sites
prayformydownfall Posted March 9, 2005 Share Posted March 9, 2005 how bout we change the word of the day to Deliverance!! ----recovery or preservation from loss or danger what were all aiming and will achieve!! PFMD Link to post Share on other sites
Author snoop_dawg22 Posted March 9, 2005 Author Share Posted March 9, 2005 Even better. Link to post Share on other sites
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