ponchsox Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 We broke up a year ago. She broke up with me. We started friendly texting a few months ago and we agreed to meet for a movie last night (she came by herself, with no friends) I figured what the heck as a plutonic friend. When we dated, she dressed very conservative, usually shorts and a t-shirt. Last night, she shows up in a tight summer type dress showing a lot of legs. We had a great time. Hugged and said we wanted to meet again soon. It seems like she wanted to look good for me? What do you make of this? She was seeing someone for a few months after we broke up but not any longer. Link to post Share on other sites
Raena Posted October 12, 2014 Share Posted October 12, 2014 Sounds like she checked the other side of the fence to see if the grass was greener and realized it wasn't. Oh... I can't help myself.... it's platonic... not plutonic unless of course your are talking about rocks deep beneath the earth's surface or bowing to the God Pluto. Sorry 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ponchsox Posted October 12, 2014 Author Share Posted October 12, 2014 Regardless of whether or not she wants you back, she's going to dress nice either way. If she wants you back, she's going to dress nice to catch your attention. If she doesn't want you back, she wants you to see what you're missing out on / is going on an ego trip because she was the dumper. I would be careful in your situation. Unless the ex begs for you back and tells you how sorry / how wrong she was in letting you go, she's probably just "making nice" or trying to relieve her own guilt by being friendly with you. If you can handle the friends-ish type thing that is going on right now, then more power to you. If she wants you back she'll have to say something eventually, or you'll have to ask her... "so what's up with us talking again - just friends? Or do you want to give it another try..." You can sit there and analyze a dress to the end of eternity but I'd just come out and ask her now. It might save you some heartbreak. Good luck! Extasis Good point, she's probably just being a tease. I don't want to get back in a relationship but I wouldn't mind being FWB. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 Most people want to look good when they go out no matter who they are with. Honestly, if you are trying to analyze everything, maybe you shouldn't be doing this. It's better if you go with the flow, but you are trying to control the flow. That's not good. Link to post Share on other sites
leoc1973 Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 why didn't you try to extend the date/meeting? Drinks or something? If you really just 100% want a FWB and you're not going to get your hear broken then text her and tell her to meet you for a drink. I don't know how long after you she started seeing the new guy but if she dumped you for him then that is all she is good for is FWB because you won't ever trust her again. Link to post Share on other sites
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