TouchedByViolet Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 Seems like all the single women I meet are sexually active in some way. Fwb, casual dating, exs... I personally have no issue with this but noticed a trend. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Cristo Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 Seems like all the single women I meet are sexually active in some way. Fwb, casual dating, exs... I personally have no issue with this but noticed a trend. Yes and I DO have an issue with it since I'm looking for something long-term. If a woman is having casual sex, it's a deal breaker. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
rawrrxlaurr Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 In the past two months of being single, the only person I've slept with is my ex. I'll be finding out pretty shortly if we are going to work things out or not, and if we aren't then I don't plan on having random sex. I'll sleep with someone once I've gotten to know them a bit, I don't have to be in love with them but I do have to really like them. My sister on the other hand has slept with quite a few since her recent break up. I personally can't bring myself to randomly hook up, but to each their own. I think it just depends on the girl. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 I personally know of two women who may not be sleeping with someone. One is in the middle of fighting brain cancer and the other is a widow in her 70's. I haven't seen either in the company of a man for some time (years). Nearly every other woman in my social circle is married so I presume they're having relations with their husbands. About the only other woman I know of who isn't married is my exW and she's been with her BF about five years now. My social circle is generally mid-50's to early 80's. There's a couple single guys like myself and the rest are married. It's impossible to know what's in the mind of another but conventional wisdom and life experiences would cause me to opine that women in my demographic are sleeping with someone unless they don't want to. There's no shortage of willing males. Link to post Share on other sites
Tayken Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 I'll be finding out pretty shortly if we are going to work things out or not, and if we aren't then I don't plan on having random sex. How long have you been dating, and what are these "things" that needs to be sorted out? Just curious Link to post Share on other sites
Allumere Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 Been single almost a year....no sex here. And that applied to all the other single cycles. Not my style. Link to post Share on other sites
Eggplant Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 Single 2 years. Celibate entire time. Female, mid-twenties. Link to post Share on other sites
littleblackheart Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 Single for over 3 months, no sex. Before I met my ex, I was single for 3 years, no sex. Sex = relationship for me, there's no other way. I wish I could be a little more carefree sometimes though - I'm just not wired that way. Link to post Share on other sites
gaius Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 I seem to keep running across women who are getting cobwebs down there it's been so long. Shocking how many women aren't getting taken care of. =/ 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Xiang Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 In the past two months of being single, the only person I've slept with is my ex. I'll be finding out pretty shortly if we are going to work things out or not, and if we aren't then I don't plan on having random sex. I'll sleep with someone once I've gotten to know them a bit, I don't have to be in love with them but I do have to really like them. My sister on the other hand has slept with quite a few since her recent break up. I personally can't bring myself to randomly hook up, but to each their own. I think it just depends on the girl. Pretty much this is also the case for me. But most of the girl-friends i know don't think to much about it, it's a need that has to get taken care off, they do a lot of one night stands. I only know two people that are not sexually active since they broke up. And another who just started her sexual experience, but she gave the same statement as above. But now that she has a taste, she seems to want to try new things. Link to post Share on other sites
Toodaloo Posted October 14, 2014 Share Posted October 14, 2014 I seem to keep running across women who are getting cobwebs down there it's been so long. Shocking how many women aren't getting taken care of. =/ Add another to your list... Its beginning to look like the scene where Harry Potter nearly gets eaten by Aragogs lot... Must remember to trim so it doesn't look like the forbidden forest as well... At this rate any man would be terrified to go there... Give it another month or two an moths will start flying out! A few more months and we may progress to bats... Wasn't sleeping with ex as much as we had been for a few months before we split up and it had become a one off rather than regular, so I am guessing 10 if not 11 months here. Nearly had some action but am not sorry that I didn't as he was separated (still married)... Doesn't look like I will be riding anyone like Sea Biscuit any time soon... at this rate it will be more like riding Dolly the Donkey on Brighton Beach! Link to post Share on other sites
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