What are the consequences?

[Tommy Gun]

Ok, i know alot of you women probably will get mad at this post but im going to ask this anyway. OK, i met this girl online a few weeks ago. We met in person and went out on a date. She is a really nice girl with a wonderful personality.

 

My problem is, she has one of the nicest and HOTTEST bodies i ever seen on a female, but her face is not very attractive at all. When i look at her body, my hormones go crazy. She is REALLY crazy about me and she loves everything about me. I just don't think i could be with her in a long term relationship.

 

I REALLY BADLY want to have sex with her,(probably because she has such a beautiful body.) I was talkin to her the other day and i told her that i really badly wanted to have sex with her. She agreed and said that could the next time we are together, but she said that i better not be playing games with her and that it better not be a one nite stand.

 

Well, thats all i want to do with her is to have sex. Im not interested in a relationship with her. But i can't tell her that. I know its wrong, but i can't stop thinking about how hott her body is and how badly i want it. This girl is crazy about me and she is extremely sweet. I really don't want to hurt her feelings, but i can't seem to control my hormones. I just want to know all the consequences envolved and what all i'll have to go through if i do just use her for sex.

 

she thinks about me too much, she calls my house several times a day, and pages me several times a day just to say that she really likes me alot and that she was thinking about me. That really badly gets on my nerves. I have a good feeling that if i do this to her, it will devistate her. Im really confused.

 

Well, i just want to hear your all's opinion and all the consequences envolved. BTW, im 24 and she's 20

 

Thanks

[Katie]

The consequences:

 

You will end up lookin like a complete jerk if you use her.

 

I think you can control your hormones if not take matters into your own hands.

 

Remember, you were born from a woman. therefore you ought respect to that girl.

 

Be a gentleman by not seeing her again or else she would get hurt and you might end up feeling guilty.

[Rachel]

Well, I'm glad I am not that girl. Obviously deep down you have NO regards for human feelings at all.

 

Well I'll tell you what the consequences are:

 

What goes around comes around.

 

You think the SAME thing won't happen to you one day, yes it will. One day you will fall for someone, and the other person will take you for a ride too.

 

If all you want is a HOT body, call a damn escort service. If all you want is to Hurt her, then, I hope you get what you deserve down the road.

 

We try to HELP eachother in this forum and I think you could use some SERIOUS help.

[Tommy Gun]

I have already had my heart crushed into bits and bits. I have been hurt so many times, that now that stuff doesn't bother me anymore. If girls can play and hurt my feelings, than why can't i do it back to them???????????

Well, I'm glad I am not that girl. Obviously deep down you have NO regards for human feelings at all. Well I'll tell you what the consequences are: What goes around comes around. You think the SAME thing won't happen to you one day, yes it will. One day you will fall for someone, and the other person will take you for a ride too. If all you want is a HOT body, call a damn escort service. If all you want is to Hurt her, then, I hope you get what you deserve down the road. We try to HELP eachother in this forum and I think you could use some SERIOUS help.

[Miss Mojo]

If girls can play and hurt my feelings, than why can't i do it back to them???????????

 

because this girl has never hurt your feelings!!!!!!!

 

i've been hurt a million times over and it something you never become immune to, but i will not use and abuse someone and treat them like s*** just to get revenge on people who i'm so glad are out of my life anyway!

 

if you want to shag someone with a hot body, call a prostitute or go to a nightclub and pick up a girl who doesn't give a damn if she is a one-night stand. there are plenty of girls out there who only want to shag, so go find one where there won't be any consequences, ok??! it's a lot easier than you would think!!! look up the personal's ads on different sites, and find a hot girl with a photo who states she wants nothing more than casual.

 

at least that way you might end up kissing a pretty face too, if looks are all that matters to you right now.

 

one huge consequence you will probably face is it will get out what a s*** you were to this girl and no other girl will want to go near you. think about it.....

[unnamed]

So big deal. I've had my heart "crushed" too, but I do not go around using every girl that I can just because someone else did the same to me. What is wrong with you?

 

All you want is sex. Well, two choices; masturbate until the desire is lost, or have sex with her. The latter will have definete consequences, just like Rachel mentioned; what goes around, comes around. It will happen to you. Used for pleasure. Used for a '#####', nothing more.

 

What the heck is wrong with you? Show this woman some respect by not sleeping with her.

 

Every man has two heads - do not let the head of your penis control you.

[sparkle]

Hi Tommy Gun,

 

What you're saying is that you want to have sex with her but you don't want any relationship whatsoever. Many other guys have felt the same way as you. And I'm sure some girls out there have wanted a guy only for his body and nothing more.

 

Well you did tell her that you so badly wanted to have sex with her. Hey..if she agrees and you both are two consenting adults, there is nothing wrong with that. But just make sure you tell her beforehand...that you're not looking for a relationship. You have to basically tell her that all you want is something physical...sex...and that's about it.

 

Just be up front with her. If she curses you out, at least it happened before any damage was done. You can move on, nothing will have happened. Who knows? She might agree to it, and then you can go ahead and enjoy her for her sexy body.

 

But please...please...don't lead her on. Don't tell her you love her before, during, or after having sex with her. Don't tell her you want to be with her if you don't. Just don't tell her any lies or lead her on, you should be okay.