Snooping, Spying and Zones of Privacy - Double Standard Between the Sexes?

[joodee]

Definitely the PI route sounds good, I mentioned in another thread that I snooped and found out my BF was sleeing with someone else, and they were deliberately keeping it from me.

 

My snooping did save me the expense of a PI, but somtimes the cheating jerk will go to lengths to hide what he or she is doing...so the PI way will save time and get to the heart of the matter.

 

And Billybadass36, I do take note that when this thread was started that you had nothing to hide from your relationship, it's totally open...that's good. Wish more thought like you. Snooping sucks, but when your insides signal something is not right, best to trust the instinct and investigate and snoop.

 

If people would only be honest and upfront, this stuff wouldn't be necessary.