Author Paranoi7 Posted October 23, 2014 Author Share Posted October 23, 2014 Latest update, I think I'm over her. Did a bit of thinking the last few days and I think I may have overreacted badly to the whole situation and lost my mind. I re-read the messages again because I print screened them on my computer and when i looked at it now it doesnt seem too bad. Bad enough that I just lost my ****, it wasnt him, it was her that instigated and he was being blunt and one worded, looked like he was just going along with it. The so called mean stuff that was said, was out of anger. And i think i over reacted again because it wasnt bad either. My emotions really got to me with this one girl. I dont know why, but i think im a bit over her. I look at pictures of her now and i think shes really not my type in terms of looks. Shes apparently upset at me because since i started liking her she said iv been over protective, jealous and ive changed. Which pushed her away. I have never ever ever been this emotional and crazy over a girl before. So any explanation about why i did with her? I think i have some idea, not often a new girl comes into my life. The last relationship or feelings for a girl was over 3 years ago. So maybe i just clinged on i dunno Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Clavel Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 un, sorry to tell you but you don't own either one of these aholes. she's a see you next tuesday and he's a horn dog. they don't give a damn about you. they don't give a damn about themselves. if they did they would have told you about this budding *puke* romance. upfront. and frankly, it doesn't matter if you don't like it, if you're hurt by it.. you were not a couple, you did not live together, you are not married, to either one of them. they DON'T care about you, or your feelings and you can't make them care. they're ******* douchebags that only care about themselves, good riddance. and if you died tomorrow, they STILL won't care, they don't know how. you should smile, send them your best wishes and in your secret gloating heart (everyone has one) you should rest assured they DESERVE each other. hahaha, a ****er found a ****ee. lulz. Link to post Share on other sites
lollipopspot Posted October 23, 2014 Share Posted October 23, 2014 Did a bit of thinking the last few days and I think I may have overreacted badly to the whole situation and lost my mind. I agree. I think a lot of the responses here encouraged you in this too. I don't really get that they did anything so wrong, especially given how you were reacting. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Paranoi7 Posted October 24, 2014 Author Share Posted October 24, 2014 I agree. I think a lot of the responses here encouraged you in this too. I don't really get that they did anything so wrong, especially given how you were reacting. The thing i need to figure out now is what to do from now. She wants my friendship but iv just ignored her completely, even though technically she hasnt done wrong because she wasnt my girl and didnt have feelings for me. I need space. But iv learned a few things from this... 1. When a new girl comes into my life, from now on im gonna keep her separate and not introduce her to anybody as quick as I did. Whether i have feelings or not. Because you never know. I didnt think i was gonna ever have feelings for h 2. Im never gonna tell a girl my feelings again. Atleast not be the first one to admit it 3. Even though i havent been a jealous person before this girl im gonna never let jealousy get to me for future reference with women. What do you guys think? Any other tips on what to or not to do? Link to post Share on other sites
dispatch3d Posted October 26, 2014 Share Posted October 26, 2014 You didn't come off very stable at the start of this thread. Next time if I were you I'd just wait a week or so before doing anything so you don't come off so poorly. You could have reacted to this much better by just waiting for your feelings to settle before acting. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Paranoi7 Posted October 26, 2014 Author Share Posted October 26, 2014 You didn't come off very stable at the start of this thread. Next time if I were you I'd just wait a week or so before doing anything so you don't come off so poorly. You could have reacted to this much better by just waiting for your feelings to settle before acting. Im very emotionally unstable when it comes to this particular girl. The worst part is, it is easily acknowledged by other people. And that makes me weak and feel weak. At this point, I am up and down. Sometimes i think im over her and other times im far from not. However i want to move on. I choose to move on. Its just so hard. I never thought id have feelings for her.. Ever. But it happened Link to post Share on other sites
Mysterio Posted October 26, 2014 Share Posted October 26, 2014 (edited) P. Just move on. Its better for you. Even if she likes you. Whats the the point. Too much Soap Opera for you. The best thing for you to do is take some time off from the whole I got to make an effort to get a GF and just chill the rest of the year. Truthfully. I don't know if this is the universe test to induct you into the world of love. The best situation for you is a girl that likes you. So join recreational activities in the new year and let the women come to you. Don't push any romantic angle. You can interact with them. You can be charming, but let them be the ones to push the BF/GF thing. Unless you get strong vibes from her. As far as being emotional unstable. I don't know why people throw that word around. You liked this girl. Most likely its lust. Love is caring about them beyond any romantic/sex angle. I think that most of us are in lust mode. Esspecially when we are younger. When we get older. The lust things is controlled better. I am surounded by lots of women on a daily basis through work/socially. I find unless the women is really making an effort to interact with me. I don't get so excited as much. I am not saying you are as well. I just say if you don't want any soap opera in your life. Going about things in a low key way is the best way to go. You basically have to say. Unless she is really into me. I am not missing anything. I don't have to go an convince some lady that she has to be with me and I am the best. Interact with women. Just don't try to turn then into anything. IF they really like you romantically, they will let you know. Its like music. Certain people gravitate towards certain types of music. The women that like you will show up in your life and let you know. The women that are not into you are the ones that you are chasing. Edited October 26, 2014 by Mysterio Link to post Share on other sites
Author Paranoi7 Posted October 26, 2014 Author Share Posted October 26, 2014 @Mysterio I am trying to move on. I dont think its love, but i do know that if her and i were together id be the first to feel the L word. I have no intentions of getting a gf. I dont want one and I am not able to get a gf at this current time in my life. However i have such strong feelings for her and it would be good to have that reciprocated because i havent had any girl interested in me in a very long time. The fact that my friend has a chance with her and i dont frustrates me because im the one that likes her, not him. The fact that she doesnt have feelings for me makes me want her even more. Not even sexual attraction? I just feel worthless and useless completely. Im tired of being just a friend. I hate that none of my guy friends ever get friendzoned and they always get the girl that they want or like whether its sex or gf and i never get girls. Tired of being and feeling rejected Link to post Share on other sites
Author Paranoi7 Posted October 26, 2014 Author Share Posted October 26, 2014 Oh and btw even my guy friends can get with their female friends. How are they not friendzoned? How the hell do they do it?! Link to post Share on other sites
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