goldy Posted March 11, 2005 Share Posted March 11, 2005 hi, used to be new but now a golden oldy, well i'm doin ok cept for this, he has been going outta his way to walk past my door etc got a feelin that he's gonna try an get in contact its been awhile about 5 weeks or so NC well how do i resist?? im soooo curious, i wanna lap up all the nice things he gonna say to make up for being so cold, i wanna see him desperate to get me back in and im just sooo curious more than anything help me girls!! its the weekend this'll be the time if hes gonna do it Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 11, 2005 Share Posted March 11, 2005 i wanna see him desperate to get me back in He won't get there if you make yourself readily available, or give him the appearance that you are anticipating his 'renewed affections'. He'll just know that you were hanging on the entire time, will take what he wants and then go cold on you again. If you want him desperate, then you'll have to keep yourself firmly out of his reach - even past the point where he makes it clear he wants you back. I guess my question is: what do you expect from this relationship? What is it you want from him? Link to post Share on other sites
goldy Posted March 11, 2005 Share Posted March 11, 2005 what do i want?? well ultimately i want to walk away with my dignity as i now know that i am not going to get a real relationship off the guy, but thats a long term plan. in the short term i really need some lovin tonight:confused: i really need some compliments and company. i soooo need it. Link to post Share on other sites
joodee Posted March 11, 2005 Share Posted March 11, 2005 Do you have friends you can call and go out for a girl's night out? Wine, conversation, watch some videos, like Sex and the City? Dinner? Make those calls. How about making an appointment for a massage, manicure, beauty treatment? PLAN SOMETHING so you can have something to look forward to. I will be doing the same thing, I'm feeling like you right now, wanting to reconnect...BUT, time to divert your attention, you'll feel much better tomorrow about yourself, cause you know he's not thinking of you, he's thinking of his ego. Link to post Share on other sites
lynnered Posted March 11, 2005 Share Posted March 11, 2005 then think about the feeling you will have when he leaves again to go home to wifey , that helps me allot ,all the times i nc,and backed down the same feelings came back , not this time I've not seen him in 2 months ,i know he misses me he ims &emails me ,so what how many times have i missed you?wanted you here? you know what? i went against me for him ,cause i loved him ,what i believed in ,what i deserve ? for what ? heartache ?lonely days &nights ?half of a relationship if you keep doing what your doing, you'll keep getting what your getting . Link to post Share on other sites
goldy Posted March 11, 2005 Share Posted March 11, 2005 yup thanks, just keep fast forwarding mentally to tommorrow. yesss good advice thankyou and arrange a girls night, i cannot do that, circumstances dont allow but i can just sit online all night as usual. i'll just be hanging out here thankyou everybody xx Link to post Share on other sites
goldy Posted March 12, 2005 Share Posted March 12, 2005 hmm ok, i'm ashamed to admit this but, he never bothered anyway. he probably knows i was up waiting i am pathetic what am i doing?? okay thats the last straw, i am definetly moving on! Link to post Share on other sites
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