Kens8156 Posted October 22, 2014 Share Posted October 22, 2014 (edited) Hi everyone, It's been a long time since I've been on this forum, but I'm having a hard time lately... My gf broke up with me 10 months ago over the telephone while a was in another country for 3 months for work. We had a really loving relationship and she always made me feel like I meant the world for her. However she left me for another guy who supposedly was nothing to worry about... that turned out to be a lie obviously! I did one week of begging and pleading but she wouldn't listen, than I got angry, apologized a few weeks later and have been in NC for 9 months now. Never heard from her again, although she keeps blocking / unblocking me on FB. I still find it strange that she can abandon someone she really loved like that and I keep thinking that one day she will regret what she has done. By the way, why would she keep blocking / unblocking me if she was completely over me? Anyway, I actually have a new gf for about 3 months now, which is really nice! She is really loving and caring, but we had some difficulties the last few weeks which made me start thinking of my ex again, hence the hard time I'm having. Is it a bad sign that I think about my ex while I'm actually with someone else? I am sure this is just temporary and things will get better between my gf and me soon, we just have a lot on our minds right now. One last thing for everyone having a hard time: NC is really the only way! Before I met my new gf, is was really happy with myself, was in good shape and was having fun! And I met someone new!!! Things really do get better with time, just be patient and enjoy life! Edited October 22, 2014 by Kens8156 1 Link to post Share on other sites
David87 Posted October 22, 2014 Share Posted October 22, 2014 This behaviour is not fare to your current girlfriend and it needs to stop. Next time your ex unblocks you from FB block her and be done with it. Who cares if she regrets what she did or not, all you need to know is she broke up with you because she wasnt happy anymore. Everyone deserves to be happy, you, me, you girlfriend, your ex. ect. Link to post Share on other sites
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