ww Posted March 11, 2005 Share Posted March 11, 2005 All that lies and hiding really kills your personality. Love is supposed to be beautiful...to make you happy ( even with those problems that appear) not to make you sad and feeling unworthy. Don`t you think so? Isn`t it nice when you love someone with all your heart and you are not afraid to show it to the whole world instead of hiding it from everyone bc you might hurt other people.. Link to post Share on other sites
sami Posted March 11, 2005 Share Posted March 11, 2005 It is always. Problem is: we mistake love for lust. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ww Posted March 11, 2005 Author Share Posted March 11, 2005 so true,. Link to post Share on other sites
sami Posted March 11, 2005 Share Posted March 11, 2005 It always so. We only need to know the difference between love and lust. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ww Posted March 11, 2005 Author Share Posted March 11, 2005 love is? c`mon people let`s try to define what love is! Love is : never to say I am sorry ( cliche) Link to post Share on other sites
goldy Posted March 11, 2005 Share Posted March 11, 2005 love is: marriage Link to post Share on other sites
Author ww Posted March 11, 2005 Author Share Posted March 11, 2005 laughing myself out loud! good one goldy! Link to post Share on other sites
sami Posted March 11, 2005 Share Posted March 11, 2005 Love is love Link to post Share on other sites
ThumbingMyWay Posted March 11, 2005 Share Posted March 11, 2005 my signature Link to post Share on other sites
bluetuesday Posted March 12, 2005 Share Posted March 12, 2005 Originally posted by ThumbingMyWay my signature Link to post Share on other sites
sami Posted March 12, 2005 Share Posted March 12, 2005 Both of us together with nobody else nearby. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ww Posted March 12, 2005 Author Share Posted March 12, 2005 Love is fresh cup of coffee in bed. Link to post Share on other sites
sami Posted March 12, 2005 Share Posted March 12, 2005 it all depends on who's fixing and seving it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ww Posted March 12, 2005 Author Share Posted March 12, 2005 i am not i am drinking it ... Link to post Share on other sites
lynnered Posted March 12, 2005 Share Posted March 12, 2005 Just because you love someone doesn’t mean you have to be involved with them. Love is not a bandage to cover wounds. Hugh Elliott, True love brings up everything - you're allowing a mirror to be held up to you daily. Jennifer Aniston Love isn't a decision. It's a feeling. If we could decide who we loved, it would be much simplier, but much less magical. Trey Parker and Matt Stone, Link to post Share on other sites
Author ww Posted March 12, 2005 Author Share Posted March 12, 2005 so how come people can decided to stop loving than? Link to post Share on other sites
sami Posted March 12, 2005 Share Posted March 12, 2005 Good question. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ww Posted March 12, 2005 Author Share Posted March 12, 2005 Colud it be bc they never really loved ? Link to post Share on other sites
alicia24 Posted March 12, 2005 Share Posted March 12, 2005 Love sucks its too confusing Link to post Share on other sites
izzybelle Posted March 12, 2005 Share Posted March 12, 2005 it could be that they never really loved. whether they thought they did or whether, or not, they confused love with lust, who knows. i know, at one point, i really truly loved my exH. i loved him, i loved the life we shared together. but then we both, or perhaps mostly i, changed. kids, responsibilities, age all changed me in one direction and him in another (or perhaps not at all). i found that the older, more mature me had different expectations for my life that he just couldn't and didn't want to understand. and as time went on i realized that in order to love myself, and who i was, my love for him was dying. it's hard to explain. but after years of trying, there was no love left. but love is impossible to define, and i suppose to understand, since there are so many different kinds. the love you feel for your kids is so different from what one feels for an SO. i know there's nothing that they could do that could ever push me away and make me stop loving them. no matter how they changed, or how i did, it would still be there. but there's also the realization that they will grow up, grow older and leave and that they will no longer be dependent on you. as for MMs, that's a more complicated situation. whether they truly love an OW (and perhaps their W), whether it's the heat of the moment, or the affair, whether it's lust, who knows. i do believe that my exMM loved me, perhaps he still does, i'll never know. but i don't believe it was just lust, we weren't physically together that much for it to have been just that. there was a strong emotional connection. the kind of connection that allows you to feel comfortable confessing all, baring your soul and knowing that the other accepts you for what you are and what you could become together. i had never felt, for anyone, what i felt for him. and he said the same. it was powerful. but it was wrong, or the timing was wrong, whatever, it no longer matters. but i know, that my feelings for him will always be a part of me. if i can't be with him, then that's the way it is, but what i feel in my heart stays. i fought for a long time (months anyway) to try to "force" myself to fall out of love with him. and i couldn't, and i couldn't move on. what finally helped me to begin to heal and to feel comfortable putting myself out there again, was realizing that i couldn't force that to happen. just like i could never force myself to love someone, i can't force myself to stop caring about him. someday, i hope, there will be someone else, someone who also may make me feel that way. but i will never forget what i shared with him. i do believe in sole mates. but i don't believe there's just one person out there for each of us. i don't believe it's a fairy tale, or a concept from a disney movie. and i know there are those who do not believe and say that it doesn't exist. i used to be one of those people.... but when you've felt it, you know... Link to post Share on other sites
Butterfly28 Posted March 12, 2005 Share Posted March 12, 2005 In my situation, I believe I have found love. In my opinion based on how I FEEL, love is when you look at that person, and you see yourself looking back at you. Love is when you can accept that persons beauty first and foremost on the INSIDE and secondary - on the outside. Love is when you can't think of anyone else you'd rather spend your life with. Love is when you can laugh at the silliest things, and it feels so DAMN good to laugh with that person, and you never get tired of it AND it happens alot in your relationship. Love is when you can cry infront of your mate too. Love is when you are comfortable with each other. Can accept one anothers faults even the worst ones because you too, have faults of your own. Love is responsibility for ones actions. Love does not blame nor does it "pass the buck". Love is doing whatever it takes to make the wrong situations right. Love is compassionate. Love is also kind. Love is about good communication. Even if it's shaky at first. Learning about one another will help improve it. Love is when you can intimately bond with someone, whom can fulfill you in every way, but there's plenty of love and emotion behind it. Love is understanding instinct. It's knowing when your other partner needs you and, yet, won't directly tell you because of the pride they have. Love is looking out for your partner's best interests and showing deep concern. Love is just KNOWING. In your gut, in your every fibre of your being, that you want to spend the rest of your life with that person. Yes, you may feel that way with more than one person, but there will come a time, if you have yet to find true love, that you just might be with that person one day, you'll look at them, and just KNOW that the person you are infront of....IS INDEED... The One. Wow. I wrote that all myself. I think it's because that's how I feel about my mate. Link to post Share on other sites
jade_nc Posted March 13, 2005 Share Posted March 13, 2005 i disagree. i don't think that love is something you feel. i believe it's an action. that's why it can stop. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted March 13, 2005 Share Posted March 13, 2005 Butterfly28, wonderfully written and I agree with you 100%! i disagree. i don't think that love is something you feel. i believe it's an action. that's why it can stop. Love is a feeling and it is also an action. I think we can 'fall out of love' with somebody but still 'love' them. We can detach and feel less emotion with somebody, but series of events have to happen and/or someone else comes into the picture. Each situation, each love is so different and unique. No love is ever the same as the last. Link to post Share on other sites
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