InsaneTrombone Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 (edited) We (both 24) met online a few weeks ago, chatted there for a few days. She gave me her number before I could even ask for it. We also exchanged snapchats. We never text, I tried but after a few days, she just stopped responding to them. I sent the last 2 messages with 0 response in text from her. That was about a week ago. On the other hand, she always is sending something on snapchat. Everyday. Photos of her, photos of what shes doing, etc. I reached out on snapchat and asked why she doesn't text me back but is always on snapchat. She kind of snapped (no pun intended) back at me saying 'I don't need to text you every minute of everyday' - That kind of bs response. I shook it off, because I knew that was a ridiculous response. (can't respond to a week old text but you can take 10 photos of whatever on snapchat everyday? lol) We went back and forth for a little bit on snapchat text and I managed to turn a bad convo into a fun one with some back and forth roleplaying banter. The other day she randomly sent me some closeup nude photos on snapchat of her. I was really caught off guard because we hadn't even breached that door. I sent her something playful back, and asked to make sure she sent that to the correct person. She said yes and she was horny. - We've never met in person, not yet anyways. She sent another one or two photos later in the day of her in her panties. My intuition tells me she probably sent those same photos to multiple dudes on her snapchat, but I'll never really know for sure. Do I just go with the flow here? I had intended on taking this girl out soon for some fun at a haunted house, but im getting a super casual vibe from her. Is she just a slut wanting a quick fling or what? Edited October 27, 2014 by InsaneTrombone Link to post Share on other sites
Arieswoman Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 Insanetrombone, Are you sure she's not a hooker looking for punters? 'Nice' girls don't send nude pics to guys they don't know - but I think you knew that didn't you. I had intended on taking this girl out soon for some fun at a haunted house The only person getting spooked here should be you. Please stop this tacky behaviour and move on to someone with a bit of class - unless of course you don't mind dating a girl who has a turnstile on her knickers .... 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Assasda Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 Nice girls do send nude pics. You just got comfortable with her and she felt like she could send you those. Yeah, so she might have sent them to someone else. - You know what, She probably had sex with someone else, that is not you. - So you can get the virginal fantasy of her out of your head. What you can do is meet her in person, and find out what type of girl she is. If she's not for you, so be it. But right now all you know about her is that she's open sexually with her body Link to post Share on other sites
Arieswoman Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 Assassda, Nice girls do send nude pics To guys they hardly know ?? I don't think so - not unless they are looking for "business connections".... 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Lernaean_Hydra Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 The only person getting spooked here should be you. Oh, did that give me a hearty chuckle! Please stop this tacky behaviour and move on to someone with a bit of class - unless of course you don't mind dating a girl who has a turnstile on her knickers .... Now, I wouldn't go so far as to suggest this girl is promiscuous outright but she is definitely not the kind of girl looking for anything but fun right now. I don't think I've ever sent nude or even racy pics to anyone I'm not sleeping with, let alone never met yet. Her behavior certainly suggests you and her have vastly different ideas about the direction of your...relationship going forward. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 Is she just a slut wanting a quick fling or what? I would say so yes. Correct response to her nude pics should have been "where do you live, I'll be there in 10" 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Fondue Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 She is probably sending those same pictures out to a bunch of other guys, too. SHe probably likes the attention. Another note. If she's on snapchat all day, doesn't that mean she's always near a wifi? Doesn't snapchat need wifi? I never used it, but I think I did overhear someone mention that one time. Which leads me to believe she doesn't actually leaves her very much. She sounds a little crazy-- if not just an attention whore. I wouldn't be into her at all. Link to post Share on other sites
Author InsaneTrombone Posted October 27, 2014 Author Share Posted October 27, 2014 She is probably sending those same pictures out to a bunch of other guys, too. SHe probably likes the attention. Another note. If she's on snapchat all day, doesn't that mean she's always near a wifi? Doesn't snapchat need wifi? I never used it, but I think I did overhear someone mention that one time. Which leads me to believe she doesn't actually leaves her very much. She sounds a little crazy-- if not just an attention whore. I wouldn't be into her at all. I don't believe wifi is needed, could probably go over data. And even so, 80% of the places I go to have available wifi one way or another. Regardless, I wasn't looking to jump into a relationship with anyone. I had a hunch she would be like this, but I was just expecting it to be after a date or two lol. Im just testing the waters and having some fun as well. Like I said, it just caught me off guard. I sent her a photo of just me shirtless before a shower and guess what, she actually texted me for once saying 'Hey ' I think the intentions are pretty clear at least from this point, this has really been a first for me now that I think of it. Do I actually try taking her out on a date, or keep playing her little game if I'm still interested? Link to post Share on other sites
mammasita Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 Attention Whore 101. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Arieswoman Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 InsaneTrombone, Please be very careful here. No-one wants you to come back here posting as "Broken Trombone" .... In UK hookers/prostitutes are known to use dating sites to hook punters, usually by sending nude pics, sexting etc. Once they have a guy interested they inveigle him around to their place, (usually above some grotty backstreet shop) have sex and then tell him they want some money for "services rendered". The guy refuses or doesn't give her enough. At this point her pimp/minder - who is about 6'4" tall and built like a brick *****-stack appears out of nowhere and tells the guy that if he doesn't pay up, then he'll get all his fingers broken one by one. Exit guy stage, left minus about £100 and plus some anti-social disease. Don't think it can't happen to you because it can. Link to post Share on other sites
veggirl Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 Just...no. That is so trashy. And good god people send nudes to multiple people at once?! Wtf. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 Attention Whore 101. Amen! She sounds super klassy too 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author InsaneTrombone Posted October 27, 2014 Author Share Posted October 27, 2014 Just...no. That is so trashy. And good god people send nudes to multiple people at once?! Wtf. It was just a feeling, because her sending them to me was so out of the blue and random. It's a bit suspicious if I was the only one I suppose. Its just like, if she's that quick to do that with me, how many others is she doing that with too? I'll probably chalk this one up to casual / fun / mess around. If anything changes I'll be sure to update you guys. I appreciate all the opinions, I figured as much. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 She's an internet ho. There's a million of them. They're not interested in you getting to know them, they just want you to offer to pay for sexting or sex or webcam. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted October 27, 2014 Share Posted October 27, 2014 It was just a feeling, because her sending them to me was so out of the blue and random. It's a bit suspicious if I was the only one I suppose. Its just like, if she's that quick to do that with me, how many others is she doing that with too? I'll probably chalk this one up to casual / fun / mess around. If anything changes I'll be sure to update you guys. I appreciate all the opinions, I figured as much. I hate to break it to you but a complete stranger sending you a few nudie pics does not make you special at all. In fact, if you want to put this into perspective, you're just another random handle in her contact list. She gets off getting men off. It's simple as that. You haven't even met this person in real life and apart from a handful of shallow chats online (not even text), you don't know this girl from a hole in a wall. If that's the kind of girl you want then congratulations I guess. Although I will caution you to tread carefully as these types of "girls" have been known to exploit not only themselves but the men they play. Good luck. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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